Hello, my darling. Here we are, navigating through a pandemic that took me completely by surprise when I first learned about you. This past year has been filled with dark clouds, but you, my sweet baby, are the brightest ray of sunshine.
There’s so much to discuss about this past year, but today I want to talk about what we refer to as “normal life.” I’m sure you’ve overheard us mention it. It’s often wrapped in phrases like, “When this is all over…” or, “After COVID.” Sometimes your siblings will say, “When the germs go away…”
What is Normal Life?
For us, normal life means family gatherings, playdates, and leisurely strolls through stores. It’s celebrating birthdays with friends and enjoying pizza or pancakes at our favorite restaurants. It’s about browsing bookshelves and exploring museums designed for kids.
Yes, that’s our version of normal life. But for you, my pandemic baby, your normal is defined by these extraordinary times.
Your Unique World
You entered a world of masks. When you first looked into my eyes as the doctor placed you on my chest, I was masked up. You were brought into a quiet existence, devoid of family Christmas celebrations with cousins or year-long travel adventures. There are still family members you haven’t met in person yet. I can count on two hands how many people have held you.
Yet, since your arrival in August, I remind myself how fortunate we are to have shared this time together. Your world is unhurried, almost in slow motion, and I believe you appreciate that pace.
Looking Ahead
As we all yearn for the return of normal life, I can’t help but wonder how you’ll react when things shift. When that day arrives, I will be excited for you to experience all the new adventures that await. I can’t wait for all the people who will finally meet you, marveling at your chubby cheeks and delightful smile.
But remember, it’s perfectly fine if you need time to adjust to this new normal. It took us all a while to adapt, and even after a year, I sometimes find it challenging. You, my little one, are just beginning your journey.
So, whenever “normal life” returns, it’s okay if you long for the quiet moments. It’s perfectly acceptable if you just want family around. It’s alright if everything feels overwhelming; we will navigate this newness together, just as we will embrace every version of normal throughout our lives.
Embracing Resilience
I have a feeling you will handle this transition with remarkable strength and grace. Do you know why?
Because pandemic babies have an innate toughness. Resilience is woven into your very being. You arrived in a time of uncertainty, and yet, you brought so much light. Keep shining that beautiful light, my dear.
I couldn’t love you more.
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