At 39, I often reflect on how ancient I thought this age was when I was younger. I vividly recall the moment I learned my mom was turning 40, and to my child’s mind, that felt like entering the realm of the elderly. Now, as a wife, mother of four, and writer, I find myself unapologetically sharing images of my breasts online, despite the many responsibilities I juggle.
At 35, during a routine self-exam, I discovered a lump in my breast. I quickly contacted my gynecologist for an ultrasound and my first mammogram. Due to my dense breast tissue, mammograms can be challenging. I was informed that detecting a lump in this scenario was similar to searching for a snowflake in a snowstorm. Thankfully, the ultrasound identified the lump as non-suspicious, but I felt uneasy and sought a second opinion from a breast surgeon. After a biopsy, I was shocked to learn I had DCIS, or stage 0 breast cancer.
My immediate reaction was, “Why me?” As a busy mom of four, including a newborn, and someone who leads a healthy lifestyle, I couldn’t comprehend why cancer had chosen me. I had no family history of breast cancer, and my BRCA1 and BRCA2 genetic tests were negative. I later discovered that breast cancer is unfortunately common, affecting one in eight women, with about 11% diagnosed before age 45.
The fear of dying overwhelmed me, especially as I have generalized anxiety disorder. Although I researched DCIS and knew it was treatable, I struggled to accept the term “cancer.” After much thought and prayer, I opted for a mastectomy over the more common lumpectomy and radiation, wanting to focus solely on my recovery without the influence of others’ opinions. It turned out to be the right decision, as my pathology report revealed previously undetected invasive breast cancer.
Once I shared my mastectomy news, I felt compelled to encourage women to perform regular self-exams and schedule mammograms. I began posting photos of my chest, which garnered attention and spread awareness about the importance of early detection.
However, in 2020, social media platforms began censoring women’s bodies, removing posts from breast cancer survivors and fighters, particularly during Breast Cancer Awareness Month. These images, including those of women with scars and flat chests, were often flagged as inappropriate. Similar to the breastfeeding community, we fought back, asserting that our posts were not sexual but rather vital for awareness and promoting life-saving early detection.
Despite the risk of censorship, I, along with many others, am determined to keep sharing images of our bodies, whether they showcase scars or mastectomies. We want to remind women of their responsibility to care for their health. Each post, whether humorous, shocking, or serious, serves as a call to action for women to prioritize their well-being.
Breast cancer doesn’t discriminate; it can strike at any age, regardless of your lifestyle. Regular self-exams and timely mammograms are essential. I understand how easy it is to let these appointments slip through the cracks, especially when life gets busy. However, that’s precisely why I will continue to share my story and my chest, even if it makes some uncomfortable. A scarred body on social media is nothing compared to the reality of breast cancer.
I’m grateful for the opportunity to use my platform to inspire women to prioritize their health. I’ve received countless messages from women who, because of my posts, have scheduled mammograms or reminded friends to do the same. Hearing about their experiences—whether they faced a diagnosis or had a close call—reinforces that my journey with breast cancer serves a greater purpose.
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In summary, I will keep sharing my journey and my body online to encourage women to take charge of their health. We are our best advocates, and a simple act of self-care can make a significant difference.