Raise your hand if you think having a legitimate excuse to stay home during the holidays is actually pretty awesome! While visiting family and friends can be joyful, it often brings stress, anxiety, and a sense of dread. This year, however, many moms are expressing their relief at being able to avoid the usual holiday gatherings, thanks to COVID-19.
Staying at home means you’re playing your part in slowing the virus’s spread. Many mothers are sharing their thoughts in our confessional, revealing just how relieved they feel about skipping extended family visits this year.
“I’m enjoying the holidays with my immediate family more than ever. I just can’t handle the pressure of multiple relationships and their expectations. Finally, it’s just me, my partner, and our kids. I feel at peace.”
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“These holidays are the best. I don’t have to make up excuses for not seeing relatives. Yay!”
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“I’m skipping family gatherings this year. I say it’s because of COVID, but honestly, it’s more about politics. I don’t care at all.”
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For those who regularly see their extended family, missing out this holiday season might not feel like a big deal. However, for others separated by distance, the situation can be frustrating. Regardless, many moms are embracing the quiet.
“I can’t believe how happy I am about not having large gatherings. For the first time, I’m actually looking forward to the holidays.”
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“I really wish our extended families would chill out about not seeing us this year! There’s a pandemic! Let’s be responsible and maybe we can see each other next year!”
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This year, many moms are feeling less stressed about the holidays, and it’s understandable. The responsibility of planning and hosting often falls on women, so a break from that pressure is refreshing.
“How bad does it have to be for people to feel relief about not gathering with family for the holidays? I’m looking forward to a drama-free season with just my immediate family!”
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“I’m so relieved I don’t have to see family this holiday! It’s such a welcome break from the chaos.”
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“I’m actually thrilled about having COVID around this holiday season. Finally, I get to enjoy small, quiet celebrations with those I truly love.”
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For parents with young children, the usual holiday burdens are lifted: no diaper bags, no worrying about snacks, no baby-proofing another person’s home, and no frantic scheduling around nap times.
“I’m really glad COVID is stopping travel so my parents can’t come over. They ruin everything. I’ve had enough of their negativity.”
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“I’m so happy to take a break from the holidays because I’ve been the one doing everything for decades.”
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Staying home allows families to enjoy the simple pleasures of the season: sharing gifts, eating when they want, and lounging in pajamas while watching movies together. The chaos of large family gatherings can sometimes overshadow the joy of these moments.
“I ordered fancy chocolates for the holidays. It’s just going to be us, and I want to make it special.”
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“I host Christmas every year and it’s a lot of work. My sister-in-law is panicking that I’ll cancel, but I’m done.”
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“I’m relieved I won’t have to travel out of obligation this year. My family has messed me up—I don’t miss them.”
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Summary:
This holiday season, many moms are expressing gratitude for the opportunity to avoid large family gatherings due to COVID-19. The relief of staying home and celebrating with immediate family allows them to enjoy the holidays without the stress and anxiety often associated with traditional gatherings. Instead of feeling obligated to entertain or visit relatives, they are embracing the simplicity and joy of a quieter holiday, focusing on the comfort and happiness of their own households.