“Do you believe in soul connections?” This is a question I often encounter, perhaps because I work as a therapist or because I’ve shared 11 years of my life with my partner, even at this young age of 30. It’s intriguing that I get asked this so frequently, yet I suspect it’s due to my circle of hopeful romantics who tend to analyze every relationship they’ve had. Regardless of the reason, I find myself pondering this inquiry often. And for those wondering, yes, I absolutely believe in soul connections—soul connections, plural. I’ve come to realize I have many.
This is my response to the middle-aged man on a plane who starts sharing his life story after we make eye contact, or to the curious woman in the grocery store who confides in me about her relationship issues, drawn in by my approachable demeanor. This is my answer to the children with bright eyes asking about love before they are disillusioned by life’s realities. And yes, it’s even for those who have experienced loss and are left questioning love: yes, I believe in soul connections, plural.
I believe we have many soul connections—those who are lovers, friends, pets (especially dogs, sorry cat lovers), jobs, places, families (both chosen and biological), and even passions or hobbies. So, when someone asks me, “Who is your soulmate?”, my reply is simple: gather your own incredible soul connections.
Finding Your Soul Connections
Seek a lover who will support you through the toughest times, who will comfort you during moments of profound grief and loss. Find friends who will drop everything to be there for you, who will send care packages filled with love and support during your hardest days. Look for those who will share the hard truths and celebrate the joys, who will show up just when you need them the most.
Get yourself friends who will call you from far away, who will text you weekly even when you’re silent, and who will be by your side through both the light and the dark. Cultivate those relationships that bring laughter and warmth, those who will hold space for your pain without trying to fix it.
And don’t forget your family—those who will drive long distances to support you, who will bring you comfort food when you can’t even think about cooking. These are your soul connections: the people who make life bearable and beautiful, even when it feels overwhelming.
If you’re still reading, you’ve likely gathered a bit about my journey. I’ve faced challenges, yes, but I am surrounded by love. Life can be tough, and it can throw us curveballs that leave us questioning everything. But the truth is, amid the chaos, there are beautiful moments and connections that make it all worthwhile.
So, when you think about that pressure of finding “the one,” remember that it’s not just about one perfect soulmate. It’s about recognizing and nurturing your tribe of warriors who, despite their own struggles, show up and love you fiercely.
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In summary, life is a beautiful mess of joy and sorrow, and while we can’t always make sense of it, the connections we foster can help us navigate our journeys. Cherish those soul connections, for they are the ones who will carry you through.