This week, my son celebrated his eighth birthday. At the end of a delightful day filled with family festivities, I gathered him and his younger sister, who is five, for a short chat before bedtime. My son was already aware of the tragic events surrounding George Floyd and the widespread outrage it sparked. However, tonight, I needed to discuss something more.
I asked my children how they thought the public learned about what happened to Mr. Floyd. Without hesitation, my son answered, “Because someone filmed it.”
I explained to them that there’s always a possibility we could encounter someone with ill intentions, just like George Floyd did. I told them that if I’m ever pulled over or find myself in a similar situation without my wife present, I would hand my phone to them, and they would need to record the events discreetly.
I then took my son’s hand and asked, “Do you understand how important this is?” He looked into my eyes and nodded with the seriousness of someone much older, not just an eight-year-old boy.
Throughout my life, whether in hospitals, courtrooms, or on the battlefield, I have always aimed to protect others. It’s deeply unsettling to realize my children might have to assume this role for me. However, my wife and I, like many parents of color, feel compelled to take these precautions. We’re not naive enough to think that our achievements shield us from police violence or racial injustice, nor do we believe that merely having a recording will keep me safe.
Though my son is only eight, while he may not be able to physically protect me, he could help safeguard my dignity and ensure justice is served in my name.
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Summary
The post reflects a poignant conversation between a father and his eight-year-old son about the realities of police encounters, emphasizing the need for vigilance and protection within families of color. It’s a sobering reminder of the responsibilities that children may have to shoulder in today’s society.
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