It’s astonishing how often some disgruntled men online claim that no man would ever find me attractive because of my size. It’s a tired cliché—whenever I write about my experiences as a plus-size woman (I once wrote about breastfeeding and was bombarded with negativity), men seem to emerge from the shadows, eager to inform me that they aren’t interested in me (or any other woman with a fuller figure).
This is meant to be an insult, but honestly, who cares? If a man has the audacity to speak down to women like that, I have zero interest in him or his opinions. Their lack of attraction is perfectly fine with me.
More often than not, I believe these opinions come from insecurities. Secure men who are genuinely not attracted to plus-size women don’t need to announce it to the world. They simply date the women they feel drawn to without feeling the need to shout it from the rooftops.
This idea that men aren’t attracted to plus-size women is laughable. In reality, many men are completely open to dating women with more curves.
Throughout my journey as a plus-size woman, I’ve wished for a variety of things—money, spare time, gift cards, and cute boots—but attention from men has never been one of them. My husband, for instance, is attracted to women of all sizes, and many men are perfectly happy with their partners, regardless of their weight fluctuations over time.
Attraction doesn’t hinge on a dress size. There are countless men who appreciate the beauty of a larger woman.
Need some examples? Here’s one: This is me. And here’s my husband, who has loved me for nearly two decades without a single complaint about my body. He finds me incredibly attractive, and my size means nothing to him.
Take a look at influencer Lena Martin’s partner—do you think he has any issues with her curves? Their social media is filled with love and admiration.
Then there’s YouTuber Mia Chen and her husband, who have been inseparable for years, even relocating to be together. Their relationship is filled with joy and quirkiness.
Or consider the beautiful couple, Jessica and her husband, who clearly defy the stereotype of men not being attracted to larger women. This love is real and undeniably passionate.
Let’s not forget gospel singer Ella James and her fiancé, who are a stunning couple.
The truth is, there are many men who adore plus-size women, and they have no desire to change their partners’ bodies.
Fatphobia is a genuine issue that needs to be addressed. No one should feel they have to defend their body size to anyone. The constant faux concerns for health are draining. It’s vital to challenge the negativity and work toward a more accepting world.
In 2020, we have more pressing matters to focus on than body shaming. If you’re using your time to belittle others, perhaps it’s time to redirect that energy into something constructive, like educating yourself on social issues or contributing to community efforts.
While some may remain bitter, the reality is that countless plus-size individuals are loved and cherished by partners who find them irresistibly attractive. No amount of negativity can diminish that truth.
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Summary
In conclusion, the notion that men do not find plus-size women attractive is a misconception. Many men appreciate and love women of all sizes. The societal pressures and unrealistic beauty standards can lead to unfounded insecurities, but love knows no size. It’s essential to challenge fatphobia and embrace all bodies.
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