As I approach a new chapter in life, I find myself reflecting on the comforting influences of my teenage years—especially the movies and TV shows that shaped my upbringing in the ’80s and early ’90s. From the nostalgic lessons learned on Sesame Street to the relatable family dynamics in The Cosby Show, films featuring Molly Ringwald, Andrew McCarthy, Ethan Hawke, and a whole lot of hairspray were staples of my youth. It’s amusing to realize that many lessons I aim to impart to my kids actually stem from these cinematic gems:
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We’re All More Than Labels (The Breakfast Club)
At just sixth grade, my eldest has begun to categorize himself and his peers. I remember doing the same at his age, and I remind him that everyone has their own struggles beyond the surface. As Patrick Dempsey’s character wisely notes in Can’t Buy Me Love, “It’s hard enough just trying to be yourself.”
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Be Exceptional, Not Just Average (Say Anything)
In high school, blending in was my goal, but I want my children to aim higher. Lili Taylor’s character teaches us that while the world is full of guys, true men strive for more than mediocrity and act with integrity, even when it’s tough.
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Parents Were Once Clueless Too (Back to the Future)
Marty McFly’s interactions with his teenage parents were eye-opening for me. It’s important for my kids to recognize that I was once in their shoes, still navigating life’s uncertainties—though my math skills might not be up to par with theirs!
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Unreciprocated Feelings Are Okay (Pretty in Pink)
While I adored Andrew McCarthy’s character, I also empathized with Jon Cryer’s Duckie. Teaching my children that it’s natural to have feelings that aren’t always mutual—and that kindness is key—is vital.
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Words Hold Power (Dead Poets Society)
Despite the overwhelming presence of social media today, the impact of words remains significant. I want my kids to recognize the potency of their voices and ideas, which can indeed change the world for the better.
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Embrace Life’s Moments (Ferris Bueller’s Day Off)
During a recent school drop-off, my son pointed out my tendency to focus on his mistakes rather than his achievements. He’s right! I want him to embrace spontaneity, enjoy adventures, and appreciate life beyond academics.
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Politeness Matters (Singles)
I chuckled at Bridget Fonda’s character’s simple request for manners. When my kids hear me sneeze, I encourage them to say “bless you” as a reminder to practice kindness, even in our tech-filled world.
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We All Have Value (The Goonies)
I cherished The Goonies during my awkward pre-teen years. The sentiment that we are all valued and loved resonates deeply, and I want my kids to feel like my “best inventions,” no matter how they express themselves.
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Emotional Connections Last (E.T.: The Extraterrestrial)
The emotional weight of E.T.’s departure left a mark on me. His promise to Elliott—that he would “be right here”—reminds us all that love transcends time and distance in a meaningful way.
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Never Underestimate Your Opponent (The Princess Bride)
This classic line stands alone in its wisdom and humor.
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In summary, these timeless films from my childhood provide valuable lessons that I hope to pass on to my children. They encompass themes of self-acceptance, integrity, and the power of words, all while reminding us to appreciate the journey of life.