Today marked a significant turning point. My strong-willed, independent, and loving 10-year-old daughter, Mia, finally let her guard down. After 67 long days of lockdown since leaving her elementary school on March 13, she had kept her emotions bottled up, navigating the challenges of quarantine without truly expressing her feelings until now.
It all began with another sibling squabble, which led to her showing a bit of sass that transformed me from a calm mom to a not-so-calm one. After a brief moment of frustration, Mia approached me in the kitchen while I was preparing lunch. She came to apologize; my heart swelled with love as she sought to make amends. I sensed that her irritation ran deeper than the argument itself, so I gently inquired about what was bothering her.
With tears welling up in her eyes, she admitted, “I just miss playing with my friends.” My heart ached for her. I pulled her close, allowing her to cry in my embrace, reassuring her that it’s perfectly okay to feel sad and overwhelmed. We shared a moment of vulnerability, with her sobbing and then taking a deep breath to regain her composure.
“Don’t you feel a little better now?” I asked her, reminding her that it’s normal to acknowledge how tough things are right now. “We can still connect with friends through Zoom and visit Grandma and Grandpa, and it will get better.” She nodded, wiping her tears, and then asked if we could take a drive together later. I eagerly agreed, excited for some one-on-one time with my firstborn.
After lunch and organizing a craft project for her siblings, we hopped into the car. Mia curated the playlist, and we set off for one of her first outings in months — a special trip to select a birthday outfit for an upcoming celebration. During the ride, we sang, laughed, and shared stories that made us feel light-hearted, if only for a moment.
Reflecting on all the milestones her peers were missing, especially the transition from elementary school, I was struck by how long it took her to open up about her feelings. Once we completed our errand, I asked how she felt now. Like me, she felt a sense of calm and relief — a burden lifted.
The pride I felt in Mia today is indescribable. In this moment, she led the way, and I followed, learning to navigate her emotions more effectively. As society begins to reopen, we must remain vigilant about how these changes affect our children’s mental health. Keep your heart open to your kids and let them know you are there to listen.
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In summary, a simple car ride proved to be a transformative experience for both Mia and me, reinforcing the importance of allowing our emotions to surface and supporting one another during challenging times.