Parenting
Understanding Transracial Adoption
by The Home Insemination Team
Updated: August 26, 2021
Originally Published: April 13, 2020
When it comes to the motivations behind becoming a parent, individuals have diverse perspectives, especially among those considering adoption. While some may prefer to adopt a child who shares their physical traits, others prioritize the desire to nurture a child without regard to race or ethnicity. In these cases, transracial adoption becomes a viable path. Here’s what potential parents and interested parties must grasp about transracial adoption.
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What is Transracial Adoption?
Transracial adoption, also known as interracial adoption, involves a person or family adopting a child from a different racial background. Though the term may be unfamiliar, transracial adoption is quite prevalent. Research by the Institute for Family Studies reveals that 44% of the adopted children surveyed were placed with parents of different races. Individuals may pursue transracial adoption for various reasons, such as a desire to expand their family irrespective of physical similarities, a goal to create a multicultural household, or a preference for international adoption (though domestic transracial adoptions are also common).
The adoption journey—such as selecting an agency and completing applications—is generally similar for transracial adoptions. However, prospective parents should conduct thorough research on aspects like whether they prefer an open or closed adoption, their willingness to start with foster care, and the type of agency that suits their needs.
Considerations for Families Exploring Transracial Adoption
Those contemplating transracial adoption must be ready to navigate distinct challenges. AdoptUSKids provides several recommendations for ensuring a successful transracial adoption experience, including discussing your plans with family and friends, seeking mentors and role models for your child, acknowledging the reality of racism (ignoring it won’t help), forming new community connections, and establishing family traditions.
Alexis Jenson, a social worker who was raised in a transracial home, emphasizes that prospective parents should carefully consider their responses to the following questions:
- Will your child have access to a community where they can see others who resemble them, or will they feel isolated?
- Are you prepared to prioritize your child’s needs, even if it means stepping out of your comfort zone?
- If your appearance differs from your child’s, how will you support their positive self-esteem and racial identity?
- What activities do you engage in that reflect your child’s heritage and foster connection?
- Do you have adult role models or mentors in your child’s life who share their racial or ethnic background?
- What is your understanding of your child’s cultural history, and how will you impart that knowledge?
- Will your child be equipped to handle microaggressions and implicit biases in social situations?
- How can you encourage your child to develop the skills to code-switch?
How to Promote Positive Self-Esteem and Racial Identity
Begin fostering a robust racial identity for your child even before they arrive. If you know your child’s race, start researching societal perceptions of that race, particularly as they grow up. Consider which holidays and traditions from their culture can be integrated into your family celebrations. From the beginning, include books featuring children of their race in your home library, and seek out dolls and toys that represent their heritage. It’s crucial to avoid unintentionally creating a “whitewashed” environment for your child. Remember, no parent is flawless, and mistakes are inevitable. As long as you remain open to learning and teaching, you can raise a well-adjusted child, regardless of any physical differences.
Are Home Studies Necessary for Transracial Adoptions?
Yes, home studies are a crucial component of nearly all adoptions, so understanding what to expect will help you prepare. Contrary to popular media portrayals, a home study involves more than just a brief interview with a social worker. It requires home visits, interviews, and the submission of documents detailing your health and income. Adoptive parents must also provide autobiographical statements for the social worker to better understand them. Background checks for all household members over 16 and reference letters from friends and family will also be necessary.
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Summary
Transracial adoption opens up a world of possibilities for families willing to embrace diversity. It requires careful consideration, preparation, and ongoing commitment to ensure that the child’s racial identity and self-esteem are nurtured. Families must navigate unique challenges while fostering a loving, inclusive environment.