As we navigate yet another week of staying at home, the challenges are just as real as they are predictable. My seven-year-old daughter is feeling the weight of our new reality. The second week was particularly tough for her. The notion that this situation might not be temporary is hard for a child to grasp, and it’s essential for us, as parents, to offer them extra understanding and grace during this time. They are experiencing this upheaval too, often without the ability to articulate their feelings.
One evening, my daughter resisted bedtime more than usual. It felt different this time, so I invited her to sit with me for a moment. “This is tough, isn’t it?” I asked. She nodded solemnly. “You miss your friends and your favorite activities, right?” Again, she nodded. “I understand, and it’s challenging for me as well. We might not know when things will return to normal, but if we can support each other, it’ll be easier,” I said while holding her close.
That moment was a wake-up call. We often forget that everything about our current circumstances is far from normal. It’s crucial to extend grace to our kids, especially when they act out. Their lives are just as disrupted as ours, and while we might drown ourselves in news cycles, they can’t fully comprehend the enormity of these changes. All they feel is uncertainty and fear. Offering them grace as we all navigate this situation is the least we can do.
This new normal is incredibly demanding. The transition was abrupt, and no one had the chance to mentally prepare. One moment everything was fine, and the next, it spiraled into chaos. Children are often more resilient than we think, but if adults are struggling, how can we expect kids to cope effectively?
There’s a plethora of advice encouraging adults to give themselves grace; we should extend that same kindness to our children. Many kids may not express just how challenging this situation is for them. While adults might binge-watch shows, indulge in snacks, or seek comfort in drinks, children’s coping methods may manifest as tantrums or stubbornness. Engaging them in conversations about their feelings can help address their concerns and offer insight into how we can support them.
When we learned that my daughter’s school would be closing, the first communication was about work packets available for pickup. It wasn’t much—just a handful of simple exercises. While I initially thought about printing additional materials, I ultimately decided against it. Realizing that worksheets aren’t what she needs right now is a part of offering grace.
These upcoming weeks aren’t about maintaining the status quo. Instead, they should be about fostering open communication and reassurance. Kids thrive on routine, but it becomes irrelevant when they’re in a state of waiting for stability. They need to know that it’s okay to feel overwhelmed. Some may find comfort in sticking to a routine, but others may require more playtime or relaxation. Acknowledging what will help them feel secure is vital.
At this moment, I’m disregarding rigid schedules. We’re taking each day as it comes. If my daughter is inclined to engage in structured learning, then we’ll tackle schoolwork together. But if all we manage one day is to switch out of pajamas, that’s perfectly fine as well. The priority is her sense of safety and support during these unpredictable times. A few weeks off from formal education won’t derail her learning journey, and it’s important for us to ease up on that pressure.
In our conversation that night, I shared my own feelings. I expressed that I also miss our previous routine. My goal is to ensure she finds joy in her days, whether through a brief school activity or a full day of watching her favorite shows. We’re taking it one day at a time, and it’s okay not to have all the answers right now. We don’t need to pretend this is easy; it’s a challenging time, and our children need to know we’re here for them, as we are their anchor in a world turned upside down.
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In summary, the current situation is tough on everyone, especially children. It’s crucial to extend them grace and understanding as they navigate these changes. By fostering open conversations and prioritizing their emotional well-being, we can help them feel secure during uncertain times.