Navigating technology with our kids can feel like a never-ending tug-of-war. On one hand, I see my family members glued to their screens, and it’s hard not to feel alarmed. Just yesterday, I walked into the dining room to find my husband and two sons—ages 15 and 11—sitting at the table during dinner, all wearing headphones and completely absorbed in their devices. I mean, it was a casual weeknight meal, and I wasn’t expecting a lot of chatter, but this seemed a bit extreme! It perfectly highlighted how engrossed we’ve all become in our personal screens since they became a part of our lives.
On the flip side, technology is everywhere, and there are undeniable benefits to its use. My kids utilize their gadgets for everything from chatting with friends (because let’s be real, phone calls are so yesterday) to completing school assignments or even learning about topics like astronomy and math (shout out to my little nerds!). Their teachers frequently emphasize the importance of coding and tech skills, which are clearly vital for future careers. Whenever I attempt to take my son’s phone away, he confidently insists he’s on the path to becoming a wealthy computer programmer, so I should just chill out.
Insights from Jessica Monroe
That’s why I was thrilled to stumble upon a Facebook post by Jessica Monroe, an HR Director and mother of three from Austin, Texas. She shared some practical insights on how parents can foster a healthier relationship between their kids and technology. Jessica’s motivation came from observing many parents giving their children smartphones and laptops at increasingly younger ages, only to later find themselves lamenting that their kids have become detached from family interactions.
“I wanted to provide some actionable advice for parents to help their kids use technology in ways that foster connection,” she explained. “We should guide our kids to not only consume content but also create and participate in family activities.”
In her role hiring young adults, Jessica has noticed that while they might be adept at scrolling through their phones, many lack essential life skills. “We hire many young adults who are highly dependent on their devices but struggle with basic tasks like making phone calls,” she noted. “Their anxiety levels can skyrocket when faced with even minor conflicts in communication.”
I can relate, as I realize I haven’t equipped my own kids with the fundamental skills they’ll need as they grow older. I’ve convinced myself they don’t need to make phone calls now, given the convenience of texting and emailing. But Jessica’s perspective is a wake-up call that these skills will be necessary once they enter the workforce.
Practical Strategies for Parents
Jessica suggests several straightforward ways to engage kids with technology that also teach them valuable life skills. For instance, have them contact tech support when your internet goes out (they usually excel at this). Or, during summer breaks, let them handle online grocery shopping for the family. Even better, encourage them to schedule their own haircuts or doctor appointments.
Her post has resonated with many parents, racking up over 87,000 shares on Facebook. Parents have reported positive changes, with kids taking more responsibility around the house and engaging in more meaningful interactions using technology.
“I’ve received incredible feedback,” Jessica said. “Parents are seeing their kids helping out more, researching products, ordering groceries, and managing school sign-ups independently.” That’s fantastic!
I’m definitely planning to incorporate some of her strategies and remind myself that technology isn’t inherently good or bad—it’s all about how we choose to use it. And, yes, teaching my kids how to talk on the phone is a top priority now!
Further Reading
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Conclusion
In summary, while technology can sometimes seem like a barrier in family interactions, it can also serve as a tool for teaching essential life skills. By guiding our children on how to use technology intentionally, we can help them grow into capable individuals ready for the challenges of adulthood.