Life is full of memories, each tied to specific emotions and experiences—be it a song, a place, or even a simple object. These associations form the tapestry of our existence. They can evoke laughter, sorrow, or nostalgia, and how we respond to that emotional surge is crucial.
Recently, every time I’ve seen or used a hair dryer, it has stirred deep feelings of gratitude and admiration for my mom. It symbolizes her unwavering love and selflessness. My mother hasn’t just dried my hair when I was a squirmy little girl with long blonde locks; she has continued to do so even now that I’m grown.
About a month ago, I underwent surgery that left me feeling weak, in pain, and emotionally drained. After days without a shower, all I longed for was to feel clean and gather my thoughts. I managed to shower, but the effort exhausted me. Wrapped in a towel, I sat on the edge of my bed, weary and contemplating giving in to my fatigue. At that moment, my mom walked in and offered to blow dry my hair—she knew I simply didn’t have the energy for it. For 15 minutes, as she gently dried my hair, I was filled with gratitude. She sensed my need for care and offered it without me even having to ask.
This wasn’t an isolated incident. After I gave birth, I experienced an overwhelming wave of emotions. It was just my mom and me in the room, and I felt like I was about to burst from the intensity of it all. I needed a long, cathartic cry in the shower. My mom supported me as I wobbled to the bathroom, guiding me as I navigated my new reality. She waited patiently outside the shower, checking in on me while I cried so deeply that the entire floor could have heard me. Once again, she helped me with my hair afterward, embodying love in its purest form.
Last year, during the Ms. Kentucky United States pageant, I came home to find my mom in tears. She had accidentally spilled something on the gown I was supposed to wear the next day, and she rushed around trying to clean it. I reminded her that everything would be okay, but that didn’t stop her from showing her love. The next day, I found myself in need of a hair wash before my final event, but due to a spray tan, I couldn’t get wet. Without a second thought, my mom washed my hair in the sink as I lounged in the bathroom. In that moment, I witnessed her selflessness again as she dried my hair, all while maintaining a spirit of grace and love.
Tonight, as I picked up my hair dryer, tears welled in my eyes. I’ve never met anyone quite like my mom. She has loved me through my lowest lows—when I felt broken, numb, rebellious, or angry—always by my side as I finally embraced who I am meant to be. Her selflessness is a mystery that I once tried to unravel, only to realize that it is simply who she is. Instead of seeking to understand it, I strive to reflect that same kindness and appreciation.
In these moments of connection, I urge you to cherish your loved ones. A simple act can carry immense beauty and meaning. Thank your people, absorb the love they give you, and reciprocate it fiercely. These relationships are part of our resilience.
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Summary
A hair dryer serves as a poignant symbol of maternal love, reflecting moments of care and support throughout life’s challenges. From childhood to adulthood, acts of kindness illustrate the profound bond between mother and child. Embracing these connections enriches our lives, reminding us to appreciate and reciprocate the love we receive.