It may sound unconventional, but having my best friend—who also happens to be a guy—deliver my baby was the ideal experience for me. Every birth story is distinct, and through our series, “My Birth Story,” we’ve gathered numerous accounts from mothers around the globe, showcasing the diverse ways they brought their little ones into the world. From those who had home births to others who underwent C-sections, these narratives highlight the profound beauty and emotion of childbirth.
When my partner and I relocated to Seattle, we quickly formed a close friendship with Jake and Emma—fellow churchgoers who shared our enthusiasm for dogs, vintage board games, and ‘70s tunes. As our friendship blossomed, it felt entirely natural to ask Jake, who is not just a laid-back, guitar-playing guy but also an OB/GYN, to assist in delivering our child.
At first glance, it might seem odd to have someone you’ve played games with take part in such an intimate moment. For many, that could be uncomfortable. However, Jake’s easygoing demeanor and Emma’s nurturing nature provided us with a sense of security during this significant life transition. Additionally, Jake’s approach aligned perfectly with my birth plan: he only recommended medical interventions when absolutely necessary and was well-versed in alternative methods. He assured us that he would take the time needed for the baby to arrive safely, and in case of complications, he was fully qualified to manage any situation.
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In summary, having my best friend deliver my baby turned out to be a fulfilling and comforting experience. The bond we shared made the moment even more special, reinforcing the notion that sometimes, the people we hold dear can become integral parts of our most significant life events.