Friendships can be fleeting, some lasting only a season or two. We have those childhood pals, college buddies we shared laughter with, and the supportive friends who helped us navigate the chaos of new motherhood. There are coworkers with whom we share lunchtime gossip and neighbors who stay on the periphery of our lives. But then there’s you and me.
We’ve been friends for what feels like forever, and through all the ups and downs, we’re still here for each other. As other friendships have faded, ours has remained steadfast. Thank goodness for that!
Life has certainly become busier and more complex, making it harder to maintain friendships compared to those carefree days when a quick chat was just a hallway away. Yet, you are, and always will be, my person.
We’re best friends because I don’t feel the need to tidy up before you come over. You don’t judge me for the stray ants on my kitchen counter or the persistent smell in my bathroom, despite my efforts. You overlook the dust bunnies and streaked windows, just like I do at your place. What we do notice are the new throw pillows from Target and the framed photo of us on your mantel.
We’re best friends because we can embrace our awkwardness together without it actually being awkward. Small talk isn’t our style; we’d rather text than chat on the phone. We find ourselves laughing uncontrollably when someone takes a tumble. We can comfortably share a room, scrolling through social media or tackling work emails, and feel completely at ease.
We’re best friends because we’ve let our guards down around one another. We’ve seen each other in vulnerable moments, shared dressing rooms, and given each other brutally honest opinions when trying on swimsuits. We’ve held back hair during bouts of sickness, whether due to too many cocktails, morning sickness, or other health challenges. We’ve shared everything from bras to makeup, and we’ve weathered so much together.
Even when we disagree or unintentionally hurt one another, we forgive quickly. Our hearts are aligned, and we understand the goodness in each other.
We’re best friends because, despite our parenting differences—like how we approach breastfeeding, sleep routines, or even cutting grapes—we share the fundamental belief in allowing our kids the freedom to be themselves. We’re not helicopter parents, partly due to our desire for our children to be independent but mostly because, let’s face it, we’re a bit lazy. When our families gather, we shoo the kids away for some gossip time.
Sarcasm and swearing are our lifelines during life’s chaotic moments—you lean more toward sarcasm while I’m all about the colorful language. We both believe in giving people the benefit of the doubt and recognizing that most folks have good intentions.
Our friendship has been a constant through breakups, moves, and serious family health issues. We’ve laughed until we cried and had our fair share of embarrassing moments.
With shared interests in pop culture and guilty pleasures, we’ve bonded over shows like Parks and Recreation and Schitt’s Creek, and we can still quote our favorite lines from Arrested Development and The Office. We both agree on one thing: not enough eye rolls exist for 50 Shades of Grey.
Trust is the foundation of our friendship. We’ve navigated life’s highs and lows together, celebrating engagements and pregnancies, and even sneaking drinks into the hospital after our kids were born. Our late-night phone calls and lengthy text exchanges show just how present we are for each other, through good times and bad.
I’ve pondered what makes friendships endure, and I believe it comes down to respect, familiarity, and a sprinkle of magic. There’s a reason we became friends, and that bond is woven tightly, like a thick rope.
Even if we go days or weeks without seeing each other, the moment we reunite, it feels like home. Though friendships can be complicated, we’ve stuck together because we genuinely love and like each other. Plus, we know too many secrets to let go!
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In summary, our friendship has weathered the tests of time, filled with laughter, tears, and unwavering support. It’s a bond built on trust, understanding, and a shared commitment to being there for one another, no matter what life throws our way.