Every night, as bedtime approaches, my little one reaches for her beloved bottle. My 3-year-old daughter, whom I affectionately call Lily, has developed a rather obvious habit that she doesn’t shy away from. And let me tell you, it’s not the most glamorous sight.
Lily is a sensitive soul—smart, witty, and kind beyond her years. Yet, despite her growth, she insists on having one last bottle of milk before she drifts off to sleep. She refuses to drink it from a cup, even a sippy one, claiming the smell makes her feel ill. Now, I may be a little dramatic myself, but I can’t help but believe her, given her delicate stomach and sensitive nose.
Ironically, she adores the very same milk when it’s in her trusty infant bottle—the one she’s had since her first day at home. This bottle has become a cherished remnant of her babyhood that she clings to fiercely.
To complicate matters, we also have a one-year-old son, Max, who drinks milk from a bottle without any issue. Lily, being the caring big sister she is, watches as he happily sips his milk throughout the day and eagerly takes his bottle when it’s time to snuggle into his crib at night. This dynamic only strengthens her attachment to her own bedtime bottle.
If you’re finding it difficult to break similar habits with your little ones, you’re not alone. As a parent, it’s all about finding that balance between encouraging growth while also being sensitive to their needs. You might find more insight on managing these types of situations in our other post about home insemination, where we discuss various parenting challenges.
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In summary, navigating my 3-year-old’s attachment to her bedtime bottle has been a journey filled with both challenges and tenderness. While breaking this habit seems daunting, understanding her perspective helps me find the right approach.