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This morning, my phone buzzed at 7 a.m. I had been awake for two hours already, but of course, my friend Jess knew that. I was struggling to get through my third cup of coffee while my toddler attempted to climb up my leg. I glanced at my screen and saw the first few words of a text: “I’ve solved your childcare dilemma.”
I chuckled, anticipating her signature sarcastic suggestion, likely involving hiring a Jersey Italian Mary Poppins. What warmed my heart, though, was that amidst her busy morning, she took a moment to reach out and check on me.
Friendship can be categorized under one umbrella with two distinct types: those who serve as anchors, either keeping you grounded or dragging you down. It took me until my 30s to discern which friends did what.
To be honest, the challenge wasn’t simply identifying who uplifted me and who held me back; it was figuring out how to navigate those friendships once I recognized the truth. I had never mastered how to have tough conversations with friends. I couldn’t bring myself to say, “You’re overwhelming me,” or “Your constant drama is exhausting,” or even “Hanging out with you feels like a chore.” So, I opted to avoid those conversations altogether, ultimately withdrawing from communication.
In hindsight, I realize that some of the friendships that felt burdensome could have been salvaged if I’d only been brave enough to engage in those difficult yet necessary dialogues.
Now, I have a close-knit circle of supportive friends who bring light and honesty into my life. They’re unafraid to tell me when I’ve crossed a line, when they’re hurt, or when I need to reevaluate my commitments. Through their example, I’m learning to respond in kind. This level of genuine honesty feels daunting, but I value it far more than pretending everything is fine while silently harboring resentment. It allows me to love deeply and live authentically.
Recognizing who is dragging you down isn’t overly complicated. The real challenge lies in what to do with that knowledge afterward. Perhaps that friend just needs a gentle nudge to realize how their actions impact others, or maybe you’ll discover that you’re simply on different paths and need to step back for a while. Either way, you can walk away knowing you’ve done your best.
Now, whenever my phone rings, I can expect uplifting messages—an invitation, a funny meme, or even a heartfelt prayer. The friends who have access to my life embrace all of me, and I reciprocate. Being anchored means establishing roots and staying put instead of fleeing. It involves viewing yourself through the lens of others and ensuring you’re comfortable with what they see.
On days when I can’t even manage to apply eyeliner evenly before rushing out the door for work, I’m grateful for the hard work it takes to cultivate relationships with those who ground me. They challenge me to reflect honestly on myself and hold me accountable for my commitments—like scouring the internet for a babysitter with a clean driving record and a love for Jersey pizza.
Now that’s what true friendship looks like!
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In summary, friendships can anchor us in life. It’s vital to recognize who supports our growth and who might be holding us back. Engaging in open conversations is crucial for maintaining healthy relationships.