For reasons I can’t quite explain, I’ve always possessed a remarkable sense of intuition that’s seldom wrong, coupled with vivid dreams that often manifest in reality. In simple terms, my gut feelings are uncanny. While I occasionally view this as a gift, I must admit that it also feels like an unpredictable burden at times.
These instincts and premonitions don’t always align with my desires, nor do they consistently emerge in ways that allow me to alter the course of events in my or others’ lives. My intuition exists independently—it’s not something I command.
A Life-Saving Instinct
Take, for instance, the time during my teenage years when I felt an urgent need to buckle my seatbelt. That gut feeling proved crucial moments later when I was involved in a high-speed car accident. The vehicle I was in collided with an SUV at 60 MPH, which rolled over us, leaving me with only minor injuries. That was a significant blessing.
However, more often than not, I find myself at the mercy of my insights. There are moments when I sense that something terrible is on the horizon, but specifics elude me. Even in childhood, many of my gut feelings revolved around the theme of death, particularly concerning others.
A Chilling Prediction
One notable incident occurred when I was seven. I casually mentioned to my mom that the founder of Wendy’s, Dave Thomas, had passed away. My mom dismissed it, thinking I must have caught wind of his cancer diagnosis from the news. But our family didn’t watch the news, and at that time, he was still alive. Two weeks later, we found out he had indeed died, and my mom’s co-worker jokingly remarked, “You guys are some freaks for knowing that!”
I have no idea how I “know” such things; it simply happens. This ability isn’t something I sought or even particularly wanted. It just is. Yet, it has its downsides. The awareness of impending tragedy based on my feelings or dreams makes it incredibly hard to cope, especially when those suspicions turn out to be true.
A Heartbreaking Dream
In 2016, I had a chilling dream where one of my children died in our home. It was vivid enough to wake me in a panic. Just a week later, my four-month-old daughter succumbed to SIDS. I spent countless months, perhaps even years, grappling with whether my dream was a warning. Could I have intervened? Why didn’t I heed my subconscious? Deep inside, I knew something awful was coming, but I couldn’t connect the dots until it was too late. That experience taught me not to dismiss my intuition, although it also made me wonder if these gut feelings are merely a form of preparation for the tragedies that life can throw our way.
Unsettling Insights
Last year, I felt a persistent and unsettling sense that two close friends, who were both pregnant at the same time, would experience miscarriages. I felt terrible for even having that thought; it wasn’t simply a passing worry but an inescapable feeling. Naturally, I kept my thoughts to myself, as I didn’t want to sound like a lunatic. Yet, as it turned out, my intuition was right—both friends lost their babies within three days.
These insights aren’t magical or psychic; I don’t pretend to have the answers. Maybe they’re the result of accumulated experiences, heightened awareness, or an intuitive grasp of situations that haven’t yet unfolded. The human brain is a convoluted and often perplexing entity, making it challenging to pinpoint how I can sense what lies ahead.
Navigating Fear and Intuition
My instincts aren’t reliable enough to dictate my life choices, as acting purely on fear would render me paralyzed. Malcolm Gladwell, in his book Blink: The Power of Thinking Without Thinking, noted that instincts can lead us astray. After 9/11, many people avoided flying and opted for driving, which actually resulted in an increase in highway fatalities. They allowed their fears to guide them, leading to more loss.
But what happens when those gut feelings emerge without fear? For instance, how do I explain my childhood certainty about Dave Thomas’s death weeks before it occurred? Or the vivid dream where I witnessed a friend’s life unraveling, only to learn a week later that her brother had taken his own life?
If I’m honest, I’m still navigating these questions. What I do know is that it would be foolish to disregard my intuitive insights after so many experiences.
Resources for Further Exploration
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Conclusion
In summary, my intuitive abilities are both a gift and a burden, guiding me through life while leaving me with more questions than answers. They remind me to remain vigilant and open, yet they also weigh heavily on my heart.