Ah, mansplaining – that familiar dynamic where a man feels compelled to explain something to a woman, often about a subject she: a) didn’t request an explanation for, b) is already well-versed in, or c) has significantly more expertise in. Writer and designer Lily Carter recently shared a flowchart titled “Am I Mansplaining?” on social media, and it would be fantastic if this were distributed in every office, home, and social gathering.
The flowchart kicks off with a simple question: “Did she ask you to explain it?” If the answer is yes, then go ahead and share your insights; it’s not mansplaining—it’s just a conversation. However, if she didn’t solicit your explanation, you’re about to wade into the murky waters of mansplaining.
The results from there are categorized into three clear sections: probably mansplaining, definitely mansplaining, and just stop talking now. Men venture into that last category when they find themselves explaining things to someone who is a recognized authority on the subject.
Interestingly, many men reacted defensively to this chart, flooding Carter’s timeline with arguments that mansplaining doesn’t exist. Some claimed they’ve been “womansplained” and insisted that it’s not a “gendered issue.” LOL.
On the flip side, numerous women chimed in, praising the chart as not only spot-on but also incredibly relatable. Many recounted their own experiences with mansplaining, expressing a desire to print multiple copies to distribute at work—maybe even laminate them or include them on business cards.
Let’s also give a nod to the men who recognized the existence of mansplaining, reflected on their own missteps, and are actively working to improve. You are the shining examples in an otherwise murky comment section.
So, the next time you find yourself quietly enduring a man explaining something you already grasp, consider pulling out this handy flowchart and sharing it. Perhaps they’ll take the “just stop talking” advice to heart.
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In summary, the flowchart on mansplaining serves as a humorous yet insightful guide for recognizing and addressing unwanted explanations in communication, making it a must-have tool for fostering respectful interactions in any setting.