“My daughter is nearly two and has taken to playing with her poop. She pulls it from her diaper and smears it on her hands, clothes, and crib. I’ve read that this behavior can indicate curiosity about her bodily functions and readiness for potty training. We’ve tried the potty, but she’s only used it once. My instincts tell me she’s not ready, but I can’t allow her to keep doing this. What can I do?” ~ Emily T.
It seems you’ve got a little artist in the making—albeit one with a rather unappealing medium! Before you consider framing her “masterpieces,” let’s explore ways to redirect her creativity.
What you’ve read holds some truth; many toddlers become interested in potty-related matters, which can signal their readiness for potty training. However, it’s common for kids to show interest in urination before they do in defecation. While your daughter might be more aware of her bodily functions now than she was as a baby, her fascination could stem from a recent experience, such as a moment spent trying the potty or even reading books about poop.
At this age, toddlers are naturally curious, and your reaction to her antics—whether it be shock or a hint of humor—could have further encouraged her exploration. It’s a phase that many parents face, and while it’s normal, it’s important to establish boundaries.
To help her shift her focus away from her poop, consider providing alternative activities that satisfy her curiosity. Engage her in sensory play with safe materials like playdough or finger paints, which can be enjoyable and messy without the undesirable side effects.
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In summary, while your toddler’s fascination with her poop can be frustrating, it’s a common phase of development. Redirecting her curiosity with engaging activities and maintaining a calm demeanor can help her move past this stage.