As a mother of two—one in elementary school and another in middle school—I fully acknowledge that I’m not a perfect parent. However, I strive to impart valuable skills that I believe are crucial for their development.
These skills might seem basic, especially for those of us who grew up with simpler technology. Yet, mastering these abilities can be incredibly beneficial.
1. How to Address an Envelope
Recently, a young man in his twenties asked me, “Jamie, how do I mail this?” After handing him an envelope, he then asked, “Where do I write the address?” I couldn’t tell if he was joking, but he was serious. After showing him the proper way to address it, I wondered if he had ever written a letter or even a thank-you card. Parents, it’s essential to teach your children how to address an envelope properly.
2. How to Use a Telephone
Having spent my teenage years in the ‘80s chatting on the phone, I’ve noticed that many kids today are unfamiliar with traditional telephone etiquette. They often don’t know what to say when they pick up the phone. It’s simple: when you answer, say “hello.” This is a basic courtesy that seems to be fading. Bonus points if your child can master an old-fashioned rotary dial phone!
3. How to Create a Grocery List and Prepare Meals
By the age of ten, kids should be capable of making a sandwich, pouring a bowl of cereal, or even baking cookies. They can also remind you when you’re running low on essential items. Teaching them this skill not only fosters independence but also ensures they know how to nourish themselves.
4. How to Sign Their Name
As today’s kids grow up and face significant milestones, such as buying a house, will they be able to sign their names legibly? If your children aren’t learning cursive in school, it’s time to step in. Even if they don’t master the entire alphabet, teaching them how to sign their names is crucial. This knowledge will prevent potential embarrassment in their adult lives.
5. The Importance of Looking Up
In our tech-driven world, it’s vital to remind kids to look up from their devices. Teach them to be aware of their surroundings—whether crossing the street, sitting at a table with friends, or enjoying nature. It’s important for them to experience life beyond the screen, to appreciate the sun, the trees, and meaningful conversations.
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In summary, while technology continues to evolve, the importance of teaching fundamental life skills to children remains unchanged. These skills pave the way for their independence and confidence in adulthood.