Yes, I said it out loud, and I’m aware that it might raise some eyebrows. But before you formulate an opinion, let me explain my perspective…
This academic year, my children started attending a new upper elementary school. I felt a mix of nerves and excitement during the parent orientation, similar to how kids feel on the first day of school. When the principal presented his PowerPoint, he highlighted three critical issues he deemed essential for parents—safety, faculty, and attendance.
The moment the attendance bullet point flashed onto the screen, I could sense my friends exchanging glances and stifling laughter as I put on my “don’t mess with me” expression.
I understand that there are regulations mandating school attendance, and while I don’t endorse letting my kids skip school to lounge at home, I also recognize that I am their parent. I carried them for nine months, taught them to walk, talk, and navigate life. I provide for them daily, manage their schedules, and juggle the many responsibilities that come with being a parent.
I deal with the messes, tantrums, and the occasional math homework crisis. And you know what? I also take them out of school when I feel it’s necessary. I can already hear the disapproving murmurs from other parents and educators who might judge my choices, but my priority is my children. I only remove them from school when I truly believe that the experience will benefit them more than a day in the classroom.
Every year, I make it a point to communicate openly with their teachers about my commitment to my children’s education. I emphasize that they are hardworking, respectful, and always strive to do their best. Education is undeniably important, but in our household, family takes precedence.
This means that when an opportunity arises for a memorable family trip—one that transcends the mundane lessons of third-grade math—we seize it. Whether it’s a family gathering with relatives who live thousands of miles away or an adventure that doesn’t align with traditional school breaks, we prioritize these experiences.
Of course, I strive to be considerate and never expect teachers to bear the burden of my child’s absence. I always provide advance notice, request homework assignments to be completed during our travels, and assure them that any missed work will be addressed promptly upon our return. I understand that as my kids grow older, this may become more challenging, but I will continue to make choices that I believe are in their best interest, regardless of school calendars.
Family time is invaluable, and I firmly believe that experiential learning outshines textbook education. What is more enriching—reading about ancient Rome or actually standing in the Colosseum? Watching a video about glaciers or experiencing one firsthand? Completing math problems or figuring out currency conversions on the go? Traveling opens doors to new cultures and perspectives and fosters empathy and adaptability—skills crucial for life.
Moreover, the learning extends beyond the trip itself. From researching our destination online to planning the itinerary or documenting our adventures, there are countless ways for children to expand their horizons. I even encourage my kids to create PowerPoint presentations to share their newfound knowledge with classmates.
My role as a mother encompasses ensuring my children’s safety, nurturing their emotional well-being, and imparting valuable lessons. If they attend school for 160 days instead of 180, but gain precious time with a great-grandparent or form lasting connections with distant relatives—like enjoying gelato in Italy—I consider that a parenting success. That’s why I feel no guilt about prioritizing a family calendar that may not align with the school district’s schedule.
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Summary:
This article discusses the author’s unapologetic stance on allowing her children to miss school for family trips and experiences that foster learning and bonding. While she acknowledges the importance of education, she prioritizes family time and hands-on learning opportunities, believing these experiences outweigh the value of a few missed school days.