The Importance of Humor in a Lifelong Partnership

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By: Emily Carter
Updated: Oct. 11, 2023
Originally Published: Jan. 21, 2018

My partner and I first crossed paths in college. I remember sitting in my dorm room, deeply engrossed in final exam preparations, when a guy wearing a bright red cap burst into my space and doused me with a super soaker—my super soaker. He laughed heartily and dashed away, leaving me in shock. While I wasn’t immediately charmed, it’s been over two decades, and I still find myself quite fond of him.

One day early in our relationship, I found myself quite irritated with him—though I can’t recall the exact reason, it likely had to do with him soaking another student. As he walked me back to my room, I attempted to ignore him, strutting ahead with my hands buried in my pockets and my nose held high. That’s when he made a dramatic move, leaping in front of me and pretending to trip over an imaginary object, landing in a snowbank.

It was absurd and utterly hilarious. In that moment, I burst into laughter, forgetting my earlier annoyance. He had effortlessly showcased his remarkable skill—diffusing tension with humor.

Just the other day at the airport, I witnessed an older woman in a wheelchair expressing her frustration to a flight attendant about the wait time for boarding. The attendant’s scripted response only fueled her irritation. My partner leaned over and quipped, “Want me to give you a piggy-back ride?” Her laughter was infectious, and soon, tears of joy streamed down her face.

Living with a goofball has been a decision I’ve never regretted. While I sometimes feel embarrassed by his antics in public, I’m always—without fail—laughing. Life can often be serious, so why not share it with someone who can find humor in the most ridiculous situations?

The comical partner will remind you that life is meant to be savored, rather than weighed down by constant worries. He’ll encourage you not to take life too seriously, and whenever you feel scared or disheartened, he’ll be the one to bring a smile back to your face—even when you think it’s impossible.

Expect playful surprises like being sprayed with a super soaker or witnessing him dive into snowbanks in nothing but his underwear. He’ll tease you with towel snaps and sneak up on you for a laugh, so try to keep your cool.

Moreover, the funny guy is brimming with inventive ideas, often outpacing your own energy levels. There’ll be plenty of time to rest later. Contrary to their typical portrayal in films, these humorous men can also be serious and dependable when it matters. They understand that life isn’t merely about fun and games.

As a father, he embodies playfulness, engaging in roughhouse antics and donning silly costumes that will make your children believe he’s their superhero. Generally, the funny guy possesses a genuinely good heart, living to see you and your children happy—even making the day for random strangers like the elderly woman at the airport.

Choosing to marry the funny guy means you’ll embrace life’s ups and downs while sharing endless laughter along the way. Recently, I noticed my 11-year-old son entertaining a group of girls by making silly faces and speaking in goofy voices. He pretended to run into a flagpole and fell dramatically, garnering peals of laughter. I inwardly groaned at his antics but couldn’t help but smile—another funny guy is on the rise.

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Summary

Marrying someone with a great sense of humor can enhance your relationship, providing joy and laughter even in challenging times. A partner who can lighten the mood and bring smiles during tough moments can significantly improve your life together.