As a new mom, I had set my sights on pumping breast milk for my child’s first year. However, I soon realized that stepping away from this goal was a necessary choice that reminded me that every mom is doing her best to nourish her little one in whatever way she can.
I have always been driven by goals and numbers. In high school, I even took an exam early to improve my GPA. I kept track of the pages I read for leisure and often found myself analyzing site traffic for work. So, when I attended a breastfeeding class while pregnant, the statistics about the benefits of breastfeeding stuck with me. I was convinced that breastfeeding was both essential and straightforward, with a goal of exclusively breastfeeding for an entire year.
My ambitious side lit up—could this be my first significant assessment as a mother? I determined that my child would receive breast milk for 365 days. I felt empowered by the double-electric pump I had received, believing it would grant me the freedom to work while also providing for my baby. I imagined myself multitasking, effortlessly balancing my professional and parenting roles, all while contributing to my child’s health.
However, the reality of pumping was far from my idealized vision. The constant attachment to the pump felt more like a burden than a blessing. I soon found myself overwhelmed and exhausted, realizing that the pressure I set for myself was not sustainable. Ultimately, I made the difficult decision to stop pumping, which lifted a weight off my shoulders. This decision made me appreciate the variety of ways moms can nourish their children, reinforcing that we all have our unique journeys.
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In summary, my experience with pumping breast milk was a challenging one. I initially aimed for a full year but ultimately learned that it’s okay to prioritize my well-being and that every mom’s feeding journey is valid.