Every pregnancy is a unique experience, even for the same individual. The changes our bodies undergo from one pregnancy to the next can be surprising and challenging to accept. One mother, Sarah Thompson, poignantly illustrated this reality through side-by-side photos of her pregnancies.
Frustrated with conventional notions of what a “normal” pregnancy belly should look like, Thompson shared images from her journey—one at 15 weeks and another where she appeared to show much earlier. “I thought I was enormous. ENORMOUS,” she expressed. “I felt so bloated and embarrassed. I tried to conceal my belly, even though everyone knew I was expecting.”
Thompson recounted feeling self-conscious at a social gathering, even opting for shapewear at a wedding because she didn’t feel like herself. Like many women, she had the desire to look a certain way before she fully embraced her growing belly. “I wanted to reach the right size before I celebrated my bump,” she wrote.
Body Image Issues During Pregnancy
Body image issues affect many women, particularly during pregnancy and postpartum. The transition to accepting our new bodies can be daunting, especially when realizing that they may never return to their pre-baby state. “I see it often—women concerned about whether their bumps are too small or too large, getting unsolicited comments on their appearances,” Thompson pointed out. “People say things like ‘you’re so tiny!’ or ‘you’re so big!’ as if it’s acceptable to comment on a pregnant body.”
During her second pregnancy, she faced questions about whether she was expecting twins. “Oh yes, that second baby was just hiding for nine months,” she quipped. “No, it’s not twins, but thanks for making me feel great about my body during such a vulnerable time.”
Embracing Change
Now, with her third child on the way, she finds herself feeling “double the size” compared to her first pregnancy, yet she’s learned to embrace her body. “I didn’t lose the weight after my first or second child, and I won’t rush to shed it after this one either,” she noted. “The baby is the size of a small bean, but that doesn’t look like a typical bump at 10 weeks, and honestly, I’m okay with that.”
Thompson emphasized that her size doesn’t define her as a mother. “I’m not a size zero, and it truly doesn’t matter if I were. What matters is that I’m a loving mother to my children,” she concluded. “My happiness and my children’s happiness are what truly count.”
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In summary, every pregnancy journey is distinct, and it’s crucial for women to embrace their bodies in all their forms. By sharing her experience, Sarah Thompson highlights the importance of self-acceptance and the challenges many women face during this transformative time.