Finding fellow mom friends can be quite the challenge, right? Have you ever spotted a stranger in a public space and thought, “This woman could totally be my new bestie”? Perhaps she was juggling a donut on the way to school drop-off or skillfully avoiding the PTA sign-up table. Maybe you saw her rolling her eyes at someone making baby talk to a child who was clearly too old for it. You know what I mean; there are endless opportunities for mom friendships if only we had the courage to reach out.
This week, one mom took the leap and penned a “missed connections” post aimed at a potential mom BFF she encountered at Target. “You were browsing the crayon aisle around 7 PM last night. I was rocking my mom uniform of dry shampoo hair, no makeup, an old t-shirt, and comfy yoga pants,” writes Amanda Thompson, a mother of three. “You were also in yoga pants, flip flops, and a messy bun. The venti Starbucks in your hand was a clear hint that you weren’t exactly fresh from the gym, just like me.”
If that doesn’t scream future best friend material, I don’t know what does. “Your cart was filled with diapers, soda, wine, and chocolate, which reaffirmed my belief that we were meant to be mom pals,” she continues. “Our carts even collided as we both pretended to shop when really we were just enjoying our little moms’ night out. We all know Target is the ultimate getaway for moms.”
It’s almost like a modern-day version of “Strangers in the Night,” where instead of stealing glances, they’re sharing the unspoken truths of #momlife. After all, who doesn’t relish a solo trip to Target? “Making mom connections can feel like dating,” Amanda, who blogs at Life After Loss, shared with Home Insemination Kit. “There was truly a mom in there that I felt had potential as a best friend. Many others have found lasting friendships in the aisles of Target!”
So, to the fellow mom in Target at 7 PM, if this resonates with you and you recognize my Starbucks drink, please know I’ll be back at Target next week—let’s face it, I practically live there. Perhaps we’ll meet again, same time, same aisle, and this time let’s wander around together for our moms’ night out.
In summary, this heartwarming encounter highlights the struggles and joys of motherhood, as well as the importance of connecting with other moms. It’s a reminder that sometimes friendships can blossom in the most unexpected places—like the crayon aisle of Target.