Last week, as my daughter and I were on a mission to grab socks, sneakers, and supplies for the upcoming school year, something caught my eye: a chic, asymmetrical black pleather jacket. Instantly, the purpose of our shopping trip faded away, and I found myself drawn to the display, frantically searching for a size 4 or 5.
In that moment, I had a singular thought: please let them have this gem in a size for my daughter.
Now, let’s be clear—the jacket was intended for her, my not-so-little girl who still has that youthful sparkle. It was undeniably adorable, and I adored it. Sure, it embodied that edgy biker-chic vibe that I love, but I already had my own pleather jacket. My daughter, however? She didn’t own one, and this was her moment. We needed it, right? (Of course, we did.)
I’m that mom—the one who gleefully hunts through the children’s section for matching apparel for both of us. I scour Etsy and Amazon for coordinated shoes, socks, and those ever-adorable mommy-and-me outfits. And yes, I wholeheartedly believe it’s cute for a nearly 34-year-old woman to coordinate her wardrobe with her 4-year-old.
No shame here! I openly embrace dressing similarly to my preschooler, and yes, sometimes she dresses like me too. I find joy in it, and I know it’s not everyone’s cup of tea, and that’s completely okay. Many moms wouldn’t dream of sporting a leotard with neon leggings or a tutu, and some might even cringe at the thought of wearing anything associated with Frozen or Barbie. After all, adulting dictates that I should look and act my age, right?
Trust me, as a tattooed and pierced mom, I’ve faced my share of judgment.
Sure, I dress more professionally for work or interviews, but when it comes to vacations or weekends at home? I embrace my inner child because life is far too short to not have fun with fashion. Besides, those matchy outfits light up my daughter’s face. Playing “twinsies” and donning coordinated colors makes her happy, and when she beams, I can’t help but feel the joy bubble up inside me.
Our matching outfits are about more than just looks; they’re a bonding experience. From shopping sprees to planning outfits, it’s our special thing. When we dress alike, my daughter walks a little taller, exuding confidence like a princess strutting through the park—especially when I’m right there beside her in my matching tutu and tiara.
And let’s be honest, I benefit from our little arrangement too. As someone who typically leans toward being structured and serious, dressing up with her lets me unwind and be a little more playful. Some may see this behavior as silly or even desperate, but I embrace my whimsical side for both my daughter and myself.
After all, we’re adorable together. Life is too short to shy away from wearing tutus and matching tees. It’s about having fun and creating those precious memories.
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In summary, I’m a proud mom who enjoys matching outfits with my daughter. It’s a fun way for us to connect, express ourselves, and enjoy life together—because let’s face it, we’re cute AF!