Parenting Insights
It’s quite the adventure parenting a spirited child. Take Mia, for example, who is three years old and has earned the nickname “the energetic squirrel.” With her wild blonde curls and mischievous grin, she’s a whirlwind of activity, always on the go. She sprints through the house like she’s training for the Olympics and is perpetually curious—often to the point of causing chaos.
Recently, I experienced the rollercoaster of emotions that comes with her antics. A few months back, I caught her in the act of decorating the living room wall with a permanent marker. Retrieving it was no easy feat, as she held onto it like it was a prized possession. By the time I placed the marker safely away, she had already grabbed a toy stroller and was charging toward our new TV. I managed to intervene, but it was just one of many attempts to keep her from getting into trouble.
Don’t get me wrong; I adore my little whirlwind. She brings joy and laughter to my mid-30s life as a dad of three. Yet, I find myself utterly drained. She’s up with the sun, resists bedtime, and throughout the day, it feels like I’m extinguishing one fire after another. Since she learned to walk, my wife and I have been managing her energy in shifts—each of us needing a breather from the relentless pursuit of keeping her safe.
After two years of this high-energy lifestyle, I was desperately in need of a break. Caring for a hyperactive toddler who has outgrown naps can feel like an endless race. I know there are many parents out there sharing this exhausting experience, feeling the weight of uncertainty about whether their wild child will ever calm down.
But here’s a glimmer of hope: change is on the horizon.
In the past month, Mia has shown signs of slowing down—just a bit. For instance, a few weeks ago, while my wife took our older kids out shopping, Mia and I had some quiet time at home. She discovered a Peppa Pig Lego set that she had previously ignored, and to my astonishment, she began assembling the blocks on her own. She sat calmly for nearly twenty minutes, her little fingers deftly connecting and disconnecting the pieces. It was a moment of pure focus that I had never witnessed before.
After chasing after her for what felt like an eternity, watching her engage in this simple activity was as refreshing as a long nap. It felt like a sip of cool water on a hot day and sparked hope that maybe I could sit on the couch again without needing to leap up every few seconds to prevent a disaster—like a tablet ending up in the toilet.
If you have a high-energy child like Mia, you know how remarkable this moment is. In the weeks following her Lego breakthrough, she began to enjoy watching entire episodes of cartoons without losing interest or getting into trouble. She even started sitting at the table during meals without making a dash for the door.
Of course, we’re not completely out of the woods yet. Just last Sunday, Mia made a run for the church organ, and I barely stopped her before she could disrupt the service.
But I’m feeling increasingly optimistic about her development. So, to all the parents out there navigating the chaos of a restless, always-moving child: take heart. There is hope that they will gradually settle down. You may have heard this sentiment many times, but it can feel impossible in the moment. You might think, “Yeah, right, you don’t know my kid.” Yet, as time passes, you’ll notice those calm moments creeping in, and it’s one of the most rewarding experiences of parenthood.
There’s so much to love about having a spirited, free-spirited child like Mia. Still, I look forward to the day when I can enjoy some peace and quiet again. So keep watching over your little one, keep redirecting their energy, and above all else, keep loving them. It will pay off, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now. Someday, you will find yourself sitting on the sofa again, able to focus on the things you need to do. Just hang in there.
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Summary
Parenting a spirited child can be exhausting, but there’s hope as they begin to settle down. Moments of calm can emerge, allowing for brief respites from the chaos. Embrace the journey and know that there will be quieter days ahead.