Farting is a natural bodily function, right? According to BuzzFeed, the average person releases about half a liter of gas daily. It’s essential to let that gas escape, but here’s the catch: passing gas in public settings like book clubs, yoga classes, or work meetings is often frowned upon. So, unless you’re bursting at the seams, you usually save it for the comfort of home—and for your partner.
Every couple in a long-term relationship eventually grapples with the “fart dilemma.” A survey by Mic revealed that breaking this barrier is a significant milestone in the evolution from mere affection to love. Out of more than 125 respondents in their 20s and 30s, most stated they began to feel comfortable letting one rip between two to six months into their relationship—coincidentally, this timeframe aligns with the pivotal “I love you” moment.
To put it plainly: as couples transition from “I like you” to “I love you,” they also start to embrace the fart. This isn’t shocking; most people relax as they reach that affectionate stage. I can’t pinpoint when my partner, Jamie, and I crossed this threshold, but after nearly 13 years together, farting has become a humorous yet ordinary aspect of our relationship. We’re not boasting about our gaseous emissions like teenagers in a locker room; it’s just part of our everyday lives.
Picture this: sometimes, while driving in the family van, I’ll roll down the windows and blast the air conditioning without a word. Jamie doesn’t even bat an eye anymore; she knows what’s happening. Other times, I might hear a little noise from the kitchen, and we exchange a knowing glance, followed by laughter. We’ve grown so comfortable with each other that sharing this natural occurrence feels entirely normal.
Jamie Hergenrader from the New York Post echoes this sentiment, suggesting that being relaxed enough to fart in front of each other can actually enhance your bond. Arnold Brantley from Daily Plug adds that farting signifies a solid foundation in a relationship. However, it’s worth noting that 7% of survey respondents claimed they would never fart in front of their significant others. Mic’s Kate Hakala remarked that these individuals might benefit from just letting it go; after all, many happy couples agree that embracing the gross aspects of life can lead to a deeper connection.
Now, to be clear, I don’t want anyone to think that farting alone signifies a robust relationship or that it replaces thoughtful gestures like flowers and sweet surprises. Instead, this small study suggests that once you fall in love, acceptance of one another, including all the bodily functions, becomes part of the package. Accepting these realities shows a unique form of intimacy.
So tonight, when the lights are dimmed and the little ones are tucked in, feel free to let it flow. After all, it’s a sign of comfort and love between you two.
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In summary, embracing the natural and sometimes awkward moments in a relationship, like farting, can signal a deep level of comfort and intimacy. It’s a humorous sign of affection that showcases the acceptance you have for each other, making your bond even stronger.