“Are you worried?” is a question we hear frequently as we prepare for our 13-year-old son’s upcoming two-week trip to France. People often hesitate, trying to articulate their concerns about “all the…”—a phrase that usually trails off as they dance around terms like “gun violence” and stereotypes about terrorism, all while attempting to keep the conversation polite during soccer practice.
In response, we find ourselves wanting to say, “Of course we’re concerned,” but in a more nuanced way. Every day, we worry about our son when he heads off to catch the bus, when he uses a fishing hook, when he rushes down the stairs, or when he skates down the driveway without a helmet. Concern is part of parenting.
Are we anxious about him traveling overseas amid all the potential dangers? Sure, in the same way one might worry about being struck by lightning or encountering a jellyfish while swimming. But in reality, keeping him at home to avoid “danger” feels absurd when you consider that the world is filled with countless experiences waiting to be explored.
We signed him up for the exchange program for two main reasons: 1) summer in France sounds wonderful, and 2) he was enthusiastic. When his amazing French teacher presented the opportunity, he couldn’t wait to jump on board, which honestly took us by surprise. Our son is far braver and more adventurous at this age than I ever was, and his eagerness to explore new experiences motivated us to say yes without hesitation.
While some might question our decision, we’re more envious than fearful. He will be staying in a picturesque town nestled in the Alps, a place that looks like a postcard with charming cafes and stunning mountain views. He’ll attend a small school where the students have been together since kindergarten, and his host family is a welcoming bunch of kids who speak limited English. We hope they’ll see him not just as an American kid, but as a unique addition to their mix.
Yes, we will be a bundle of nerves until he boards that plane, but he isn’t a reckless adventurer seeking danger. I’m sure he’ll find all the comforts of home, like video games and his favorite snacks. The hope is that this experience will cultivate a sense of curiosity about the world and help combat ignorance and fear that can arise from watching sensationalized news.
We grew up without opportunities to travel abroad, and while our parents meant well, their protective instincts created an environment that sometimes felt limiting. We want our son to understand that the world is vast and accessible, especially for those born into privilege. One day, we might even let his younger brother join in on such an adventure.
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In summary, while we acknowledge the fears that come with parenting, we choose to embrace the growth and experiences that come from stepping out into the world. Our hope is that this trip will inspire our son to see beyond his immediate surroundings and foster a deeper understanding of different cultures.