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Amidst the hustle and bustle of our busy lives, no matter how far apart we are, you will always be my girls.
As I found myself surrounded by cardboard boxes in the basement, sorting through our belongings while my husband took care of the kids, I stumbled upon a box filled with memories from my younger days with my friends. Out came photographs from our college adventures, handwritten notes, and tokens from unforgettable spring break trips. This box was a treasure trove of reminiscence, capturing the essence of the laughter and support shared among us.
Although many of our cherished moments are tucked away in that box, they don’t define our story. We began our journey in dorm rooms, but now we create memories through voicemails, emails, texts, and, when the universe allows, face-to-face meetings.
Now that we are mothers, it could be easy to become lost in the chaos of parenting. It’s simple to forget a call or a text among the responsibilities of laundry, sick kids, and meal prep. However, rather than using these challenges as reasons to drift apart, we chose to see them as opportunities to draw closer together.
There was indeed a phase when we let time slip away. We made excuses, but eventually recognized that we could no longer wait for the right moment to nurture our friendship. Motherhood didn’t weaken our bond; it reinforced it.
You will always be my girls. I promise to listen, to share in your tears and joy, and to embrace the fun moments that punctuate our lives. I will be the friend who stands by you through both the highs and lows.
I recall sitting on my grandpa’s lap as a child, surrounded by the warm wood of his kitchen. He would say, “If you have five true friends in life, you’re blessed.” At the time, I thought five was a small number, but as an adult, I understand the wisdom behind his words. These are my best friends, the women with whom I can laugh until I cry and cry until I laugh. These are my girls.
Distance, time, and life’s unpredictability will never change that.
Girlfriends help us rediscover forgotten aspects of ourselves and remind us of their significance. My friends help me reconnect with who I am beyond being a mother. Together, we share our vulnerabilities, revealing truths that often remain hidden from the outside world.
We elevate each other, instilling confidence and standing firm as we navigate life’s challenges. We discuss our insecurities, reassuring one another that we are more than ordinary. Our time together is so fulfilling that I often worry we may not create better memories than those we currently cherish. Yet, we always manage to surpass them.
After our latest weekend getaway, as we leaned against the car with our suitcases, tears flowed freely as we expressed our love and appreciation for one another. I noticed a woman in a car nearby, watching us with a smile. It was clear she recognized the bond we share—the kind of friendship everyone hopes to find.
As we parted ways at the airport, I understood that we would soon return to our busy routines of parenting. Gone would be the leisurely mornings and late-night chats over wine. But one truth remained steadfast: nothing could sever our friendship. You will always be my girls, just a phone call, email, or text away, no matter where life takes us.
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In summary, no matter the distance or life’s changes, my friends will always hold a special place in my heart. They are my support system, my laughter, and my joy.