Dear Beloved Daughter,
As I reflect on the world into which you have been born, I must admit it’s a complicated place. I’m truly sorry that society often fails to recognize women as equals. There will be individuals who look down on you simply for being female, believing you are somehow “less-than” because of your gender.
I apologize that your worth may be measured by your appearance. Your intelligence, kindness, and courage might be overlooked if you choose to wear something deemed inappropriate. Some may even go so far as to label you with hurtful terms like “slut” or “whore,” all while claiming to uphold morality. It’s them who need to learn what decency really means. Remember, darling, never let anyone dictate how you should feel about yourself.
I’m also sorry that you will face challenges proving your intellect simply because of your gender. Despite presenting brilliant ideas and arguments, some may dismiss you as “too emotional” or “overly sensitive.” I regret that your voice may sometimes be silenced due to outdated perceptions about women.
Your brother may find life a bit easier, and I apologize for that. If you both enter the same profession, he might earn more money for the same work just because he’s a man. You might be passed over for promotions despite being equally qualified. It’s unfair, and I wish I could shield you from these inequities.
I’m hopeful for a brighter future, but I want you to be prepared to stand your ground and advocate for what you deserve. You are strong and capable, so never forget that.
I’m sorry that, because I’ve taught you to express your emotions, some may perceive you as weak. It’s disappointing that a normal biological process, like menstruation, can lead to judgment about your character and behavior. Don’t let anyone make you feel ashamed of your body.
If you choose to become a parent, I’m sorry that others may criticize your decision to work outside the home, insinuating that you’re neglecting your children. Conversely, if you decide to stay home, some might believe you’re taking the easy way out and don’t deserve the same respect. Remember, the choice is yours alone. Discover what ignites your passion—whether that’s motherhood, a career, or a combination of both.
I’m sorry that the world outside these four walls may not reflect the respect you receive here. However, I want to instill hope in you. Many are working tirelessly to create a better future. We make calls to lawmakers, email them relentlessly, attend protests, and unite on social media. We are creating change. We are fighting for your rights, for bodily autonomy, and for equal pay. We are standing against victim-blaming and working to pave the way for a better life for you and future generations.
The journey as a woman is challenging and often fraught with ignorance. But don’t lose hope; we are advocating for you. Being a woman is not a flaw—it is a source of strength and beauty. You are strong, smart, and courageous, and you have every right to express that.
So, go out there and show them your spirit.
With all my love,
Mom
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Summary: This letter addresses the challenges women face in a society that often undervalues them. It emphasizes the importance of self-advocacy, emotional expression, and making choices that align with personal values. Despite the obstacles, it highlights the collective efforts to create a more equitable future.