I’ve been a crafting enthusiast, a DIY aficionado, and a baking fanatic for as long as I can remember. My passion lies in the joy of creating, often resulting in a delightful mess. When my sister got married and requested sparkly shoes for her bridesmaids to wear with our teal dresses, rather than purchasing pre-decorated footwear, my other sister and I decided to embellish our stilettos with Mod Podge and loose glitter—it turned out to be a blast.
I thrive on exploring new creative outlets. Sometimes, I get the sudden urge to whip up a cheesecake for no particular reason on an ordinary Tuesday. When I spot a piece of art in a magazine that captures my heart, I dive right in to replicate it instead of browsing through stores.
Occasionally, my projects turn out just as I envisioned, but more often than not, they don’t. Still, I refuse to put away my knitting needles or sewing machine simply because my creations don’t resemble those in high-end magazines. My motivation isn’t driven by perfection.
Crafting is an essential part of who I am, reflecting both my past and my present as a mom. It remains a constant amidst life’s ups and downs. I loved making things before, and I still find joy in it today. I appreciate art in all its forms, and while I might not fit the typical Pinterest mom mold, I do enjoy pinning ideas, gathering supplies, and attempting to bring my inspirations to life. The process of creation nourishes my soul in a way that purchasing ready-made items cannot. If I feel like making 457 pom-poms, then that’s exactly what I’m going to do—after all, those pom-poms can become a charming rug!
There are times I invite my kids to join in, but I also value moments of solitude where I can focus on my own projects. Crafting rejuvenates me.
It’s unfortunate that moms who enjoy making things often face criticism, but contrary to popular belief, we’re not seeking validation or trying to outshine anyone else. That notion is simply ludicrous!
I’m not trying to outdo anyone; I’m merely reconnecting with the person I was before motherhood. Sometimes that means staying up late to create clay bowls adorned with polka dots just for the fun of it. We aren’t filling a void or making others feel inadequate. I know many creative moms, and we’ve been making things together long before Pinterest was a thing. They inspire me to try new projects, whether it’s re-tiling a kitchen or crafting something unique.
Ultimately, we create because it brings us happiness—not to overshadow anyone else. Who started these misconceptions anyway? Life is about enrichment, and for some of us, that includes gathering with friends to sip wine and paint. Cleaning baseboards or organizing a Tupperware cupboard can feel just as rewarding.
This isn’t for everyone—some moms are athletes, fundraisers, or entrepreneurs. Each of us channels our energy into activities that bring us joy, which is exactly what we should do.
So if I want to dive into a new backsplash project or assemble a thumbtack wreath, I’m going for it. Instead of allowing someone else’s talents or hobbies to diminish our self-worth, we should embrace our unique strengths. And just so you know, I could knit you a sweater if you take my shift at the school fundraiser next week.
If you’re looking for more insights on this journey, check out our other blog posts, like the one on using a home insemination kit here. It’s an excellent resource for those exploring their options, along with CDC’s information on pregnancy and home insemination. Whether you’re interested in crafting or expanding your family, it’s about finding what fulfills you.
Summary:
Creating is a fulfilling part of life that brings joy and connection to who we are. It’s not about competition or impressing others, but rather about expressing ourselves and finding satisfaction in the process. Whether through crafting or exploring family-building options, embracing our passions is key.