As women, we often receive mixed messages regarding breastfeeding and its potential link to breast cancer. Many believe that breastfeeding guarantees immunity from the disease, but while nursing does reduce the risk, it certainly does not eliminate it entirely. Statistically, one in eight women will be diagnosed with breast cancer in their lifetime. Prior to my own diagnosis, I was unaware of anyone personally affected by the illness. However, since then, three acquaintances have received breast cancer diagnoses, and two others discovered lumps, thankfully resulting in all-clear findings.
This message is particularly aimed at mothers who are breastfeeding or weaning. If you discover a lump that you suspect may be a clogged duct and it persists for over two weeks, please consult your physician. If the lump enlarges or if you experience any discomfort, seek medical attention promptly. These steps could be life-saving.
In September 2015, at 36 years old, I welcomed my daughter into the world. She is now an energetic 18-month-old. After experiencing miscarriages and complications, I had resigned myself to the idea that motherhood might not be in my future. Thus, my pregnancy was a delightful surprise.
I had committed to breastfeeding for a full year, but I had to stop at 11 months due to a significant decrease in milk supply. I would pump for over an hour on each side, often yielding just 2 ounces combined. Around that time, I first noticed a lump in my breast. Assuming it was a clogged duct, I attempted to massage it out, as I had done successfully before. However, after three weeks, the lump remained unchanged, prompting me to contact my doctor’s office. I described my situation and was advised to continue with massage, with the suggestion to call back in three days if there was no improvement.
I waited over a week before reaching out again, at which point I was scheduled for both a mammogram and an ultrasound for further evaluation. I underwent both tests on the same day, and roughly four hours later, I received a call requesting a biopsy. At that moment, I understood it was cancer. The mass was approximately 1.8 inches in size—a concerning discovery.
During the waiting period for results, a friend introduced me to a breast cancer survivor. As I grappled with the uncertainty, I sought support from someone who had navigated a similar experience. Even the strongest individuals need guidance, and this connection proved invaluable. We continue to share our journeys today.
On October 6, I received the test results. That week of anticipation was challenging, but I mentally prepared myself. Despite trying to remain optimistic, I succumbed to the temptation of researching breast cancer online. I feared it might be stage 2b or 3, but regardless, I knew I had to be strong for my daughter.
The diagnosis confirmed my worries: aggressive invasive ductal carcinoma, stage 2b with a grade 3 tumor. Breast cancer tumors are graded from 1 to 3, with higher grades indicating faster growth. My oncologist informed me that my tumor had developed within just six weeks, growing rapidly during that short time.
This experience underscores the importance of regular breast examinations. All women should perform self-checks, but breastfeeding mothers are particularly prone to dismissing lumps as mere clogged ducts. If you notice a lump that has lasted longer than two weeks, don’t hesitate to seek medical advice. The outdated belief that “if it hurts, it isn’t cancer” is simply not true.
While the journey through cancer is undoubtedly difficult, choosing to fight and seek positivity is essential. I recently completed chemotherapy and am now preparing for surgery and radiation. A mastectomy on the affected breast is next, followed by radiation, mastectomy of the other breast, and finally reconstruction. Daily, I find gratitude for life and the unwavering support from family and friends.
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Summary
Misunderstandings about breastfeeding and its connection to breast cancer can lead to delays in crucial treatment. Women, especially those breastfeeding, should not ignore persistent lumps, as they could signify a serious condition. Early detection is key to effective treatment.