I see you, Mama, moving anxiously from room to room, mentally ticking off what still needs to be ready for tomorrow. You pause at the crib, captivated by your baby’s delicate lashes and steady breathing, unaware that soon, someone else will be reading his favorite story about a bunny and putting him down for his nap.
You’re trying to cook ahead for those long 11 or 12-hour days that loom. The crockpot is out, recipes are bookmarked, and your grocery stash is so extensive it looks like you’re preparing for a storm. The freezer won’t even shut properly.
You toss carrots and broccoli into the steamer you’ve been using for baby purées. Starting tomorrow, you know time will be tight, and he might have to settle for store-bought pouches, even if it means contributing to waste and sidestepping the benefits of chewing.
You lay out the pumping gear and the familiar black-and-cream device on the counter, wondering if your little one will take the bottle since you haven’t had the chance to “train” him recently, as so many suggested.
Picking up one of his framed newborn photos, you can’t decide which one to take—so you end up packing both while gazing at the empty space on your nightstand. You can’t help but feel resentful about how quickly the first few months have flown by. All that remains are hundreds of photos on your phone, a digital record of the life you nurtured day and night, capturing your child’s infancy. To cope, you jot down all the activities you did on maternity leave—daily walks, storytime, playdates, music in the park, and trips to the museum (as if a baby cares about jazz or dinosaurs). Could you have done more? Did you do enough?
The smell of burnt carrots and broccoli suddenly jolts you back to reality.
In a panic, you dash to the kitchen and toss out the charred veggies. You remind yourself that the daycare is a good choice; you did your homework. The sight of babies in high chairs with caregivers feeding them, the lingering scents of warm milk and antiseptic, seems so distant now. But what if he won’t eat? What if he cries for you?
Doubts creep in about returning to work, but bills need to be paid. You wanted a nicer home, away from the neighbor who blasts his TV and leaves his dog barking all day. Visiting family across the country was a goal of yours, and you yearn to wear dresses and heels once in a while. You want your work experience and passions to matter, even if the statistics show that only a small percentage of mothers successfully return to the workforce after time away.
Some friends sell leggings and cosmetics online, but sales were never your forte. You wish there was a way to escape the typical 47-hour American workweek and the exhausting commute.
As a new batch of carrots rolls off the counter and onto the floor, you feel overwhelmed. Rushing to your sleeping baby in his cozy pajamas, you hold him tightly, afraid to let go.
But tomorrow is a new day. You’ll take it one step at a time. You’ll still have mornings, evenings, and weekends together.
Tomorrow, I’ll see you on that train, Mama. I promise to admire the photos of your child on your phone and won’t pry if you shed a tear at your desk; I’ll simply hand you a tissue and offer to bring you lunch (since you probably won’t take a break). We’re all rooting for you, Mama, from those 4:30 p.m. meetings to the bleachers at school games and our little ones’ performances. Wherever you are, remember you’re doing an amazing job. We’re all in this together.
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Summary
This piece captures the emotional turmoil and practical challenges a mother faces as she prepares to return to work after maternity leave. It reflects on her feelings of nostalgia, the pressure to balance work and family life, and the support from the community. The narrative emphasizes the importance of taking things one day at a time and reminds mothers that they are not alone on this journey.