I felt it necessary to reach out and share some insights with you. Yesterday, amidst the chaos that has become our daily lives, I noticed the stress etched on your face as you expressed your need for a break. It’s a phrase I’ve heard from you more often lately.
I won’t deny that the past few weeks have been overwhelming. Between my demanding project, our energetic toddler, and your efforts to manage the household, it’s been a lot. I completely understand how frustrating it must have been to deal with our child’s unfortunate incident right after bedtime, just as you were hoping to relax and watch a game. It’s been tough on all fronts.
Working sixty hours a week is not ideal for me either, and juggling meal prep and early morning babysitter notes isn’t exactly my idea of fun. But I want to remind you of something important. Yes, I’m pregnant, which means I’m carrying another human being, and while you might not fully grasp the level of fatigue that comes with it, please know it’s a struggle I’m navigating—one that’s been ongoing for years.
I also realize that aside from that one time you attempted The Whole30 with me, you might not quite understand the desire to unwind with a drink at the end of a long day. I see you enjoying a beer while our son has his playful moments with juice spills, so let’s get to the heart of the matter.
Brace yourself, because things are about to get even more challenging. In just a few months, we’ll welcome another little one into our family. Sleep will become a distant memory as the baby and toddler wake each other up at all hours. The chaos will multiply, and we’ll find ourselves juggling childcare for two, coordinating meals, and managing school activities, not to mention the inevitable household repairs that will arise just as we start to get a handle on things.
But there is a silver lining. Eventually, we’ll carve out a routine, share post-bedtime beers, and find joy amid the frenzy. However, let’s not overlook the fact that soon enough, our firstborn will start kindergarten, and before we know it, we’ll be navigating years filled with homework, extracurricular activities, and yes, the occasional teenage rebellion.
As we look to the future, let’s remember the value in this journey we’ve chosen together. It’s not always smooth sailing, but it’s ours. So, let’s embrace the wild ride ahead and support each other through the ups and downs. We’re lucky to experience all of this together, and I know you feel that too.
With love,
Your Devoted Wife
P.S. By the way, our little one managed to drop your phone in the toilet again.