For as long as I can recall, I have been labeled a “tomboy.” With my female anatomy and a penchant for blue jeans, I understand why. I don’t fit the mold of what society considers a “girly” girl. Dresses are often deemed feminine, while dress pants are not. Pencil skirts might be appropriate for weddings, but suits are seen as inappropriate for women.
Some view women who opt for pants as less feminine than those who don dresses. In high school, I was often perceived as less feminine for choosing football jerseys over skirts. Playing basketball after school instead of going for manicures placed me in the “one of the guys” category, rather than being recognized as a young “lady.” To those who think this way, I want to say, “That’s nonsense.”
I don’t conform to the stereotypical image of femininity often depicted in magazines and media. The conventional definition of feminine includes rouged cheeks, pearls, and showing ankles—none of which resonate with me. For years, I felt less confident compared to my dress-wearing peers. However, I realized that powerful women like musicians and actresses, as well as political figures, have embraced styles outside of traditional femininity and have not diminished their womanhood in the process.
Clothing does not define femininity. An old adage suggests that clothes make the man, but I reject this notion when it comes to women. A woman can wear whatever she pleases and still embody femininity, attractiveness, and allure. The belief that one woman is less feminine than another simply because of her clothing choices frustrates me. It’s offensive.
As a matter of fact, I own only two dresses—both worn just once for weddings, as dictated by the bride. If you’ve attended a wedding, you know it’s essential to follow the bride’s wishes. Outside of those instances, I haven’t worn a dress in years. Dressing in what’s traditionally considered “female” simply doesn’t resonate with me. I often feel uncomfortable and less empowered in such attire. My goal in selecting outfits is to feel like the fierce, unapologetic woman I aspire to be.
What truly defines femininity is how a woman feels about herself. The term is subjective and varies based on individual experiences and cultural backgrounds. If you wear your confidence as armor and exude the mantra, “I am woman, hear me roar,” then it doesn’t matter what you wear. What counts is that you feel pretty, sexy, comfortable, and powerful in your own skin. So, disregard anyone who tries to label you. Keep roaring, ladies.
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Conclusion
In summary, a woman’s clothing choices do not determine her femininity. Confidence and self-perception are what truly define how feminine someone feels. Embrace your style, whatever it may be, and continue to celebrate the powerful woman you are.