One of the most significant challenges I faced after my divorce was striking a balance between single parenting and building my career. As a full-time single mother to three teenage daughters and a young son, coupled with my work as a freelance writer and editor, it became clear that working from home was the best fit for my situation.
Adjusting to this new lifestyle took time, but through a process of trial and error, I established a daily routine that helped me find my groove. Working from home certainly presents its own set of obstacles, but I have successfully implemented the following five strategies to enhance my focus and productivity as both a mother and a business owner.
1. Establish Your Workspace
Deciding where to set up my work area took some time, and I found that my needs evolved as my career progressed. Initially, I worked at the kitchen island with my laptop, feeling comfortable in that familiar spot. However, as my work expanded and I began taking on private clients, I realized I needed a more dedicated space and gradually took over my ex-husband’s former area. While I have a designated home office, I often prefer working in the family room, keeping me engaged with my children while avoiding distractions like the refrigerator.
2. Create a Work Schedule
Starting a business is no small feat, and in the early days, I found myself working long hours, often spilling into weekends. I love what I do, but I quickly realized the importance of setting boundaries to prevent burnout. I reevaluated my schedule and embraced the flexibility of working from home. I reserve quiet time for work while the kids are at school and prioritize family time during specific hours. Additionally, I now recognize the value of a good night’s sleep to ensure I wake up refreshed for the next day.
3. Manage Your Time Wisely
As my business grew, I created a calendar to organize my time across various clients. This not only kept me on track with deadlines, but also allowed me to carve out leisure time. Once I implemented this system, I felt a significant reduction in stress and found extra moments in my day to work on business development and other tasks that had previously been set aside.
4. Embrace Your Role
Early in my entrepreneurial journey, I volunteered at my son’s school, and a fellow mom—who had taken the day off from her corporate job—asked about my work. When I mentioned I worked from home, she questioned why I felt the need to qualify my response. It made me realize I was undervaluing my work because I compared it to traditional office jobs. She encouraged me to own my role as a professional. It’s essential to recognize that work is work, regardless of the location.
5. Set Clear Boundaries
Working from home can blur the lines between personal and professional life. Treat your work hours as you would if you were commuting to an office. This includes limiting personal phone calls during work hours. Friends and family will understand if you let calls go to voicemail or ask to reschedule. Respecting your time is crucial for maintaining productivity.
In summary, being a work-from-home mom comes with its unique set of challenges, but with the right strategies, you can create a fulfilling balance between work and family. By establishing a dedicated workspace, managing your time effectively, and setting clear boundaries, you can thrive in both your professional and personal life. For more insights into family planning and home insemination, check out this resource, and for further reading on alternative family structures, visit this blog post and learn about the journey of two passionate moms here.