When it comes to style, there’s a remarkable woman named Linda in her 60s who confidently flaunts an undercut and oversized earrings. She embodies beauty and self-assurance without batting an eye at societal expectations. Linda didn’t wake up one day and decide, “I’m too old to express myself; pass me the dull pants and cardigan.” No, she embraces her individuality fully, without seeking validation from others, and certainly not from anyone at the country club. She’s too busy living her vibrant life to care about being “on trend.”
Honestly, you can take those so-called fashion rules and toss them aside. If you feel fabulous in something, wear it, regardless of what the fashion elites may dictate. Who cares if horizontal stripes aren’t deemed flattering for certain body types? And let’s clear the air: leggings are absolutely pants, and I’ll wear them proudly, whether I’m lounging at home or heading to bed, because they make me feel unstoppable. I refuse to conform to any fashion norms.
Sticking to restrictive fashion guidelines is as enjoyable as scrubbing toilets. Choosing your attire based on your own preferences—no matter your age or motherhood status—is liberating. Want to wear that glittering tiara your daughter made for her tea party to the grocery store? Go for it! You’ll likely brighten someone’s day.
I often hear women lament, “I’m too old for that,” or “Is it appropriate for a mother to wear this?” But last I checked, women don’t come with expiration dates. There’s no rule that says you need to shy away from overalls or fun outfits. Embrace your flair for fashion, regardless of the years you’ve accumulated. The older you get, the more fabulous you become, so why not celebrate it?
Being a mother or aging doesn’t erase your former self. Sometimes, our clothing choices evoke feelings of nostalgia—like slipping into your favorite jeans from your youth or recalling the days when you could pamper yourself without needing a babysitter. It’s all about feeling good.
If you want to pair a blazer with your yoga pants after a workout for a ladies’ lunch, then do it! Bonus: those yoga pants will let you indulge a little more. Adore those over-the-knee boots? Wear them! Who cares if you channel Julia Roberts in “Pretty Woman”? If you’re going to embrace that bold look, make sure you do it with confidence.
I once read a magazine article that insisted no one should wear miniskirts after 35. What nonsense is that? Are we really saying no one wants to see our legs past a certain age? That’s doing a disservice to all the stunning women out there. Have you seen the fantastic legs of Halle Berry? Plus, shorter women often feel lost in long skirts.
Fashion should celebrate the diversity of women’s bodies. How dull would it be if we all donned the same “momiform” every day? Whether you want to embrace trends, stick with classics, or wear something unique that speaks to you, let your personal style shine. Don’t let anyone, not even your kids, dictate what you should wear.
If you’re hesitant to explore new trends because you’re a mom or feel past your prime (you’re not!), reconsider. Who even creates these fashion rules, and why do we feel compelled to follow them? Wear what makes you feel good. If you love how you feel in an outfit, that’s reason enough to wear it, because confidence is always in vogue.
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In summary, fashion should be about what makes you feel empowered and confident. Embrace your individuality, regardless of age or societal expectations. Wear what you love, and don’t let anyone else’s opinions hold you back.