Oh, what a bittersweet journey this is, this act of letting go! From the first steps to the first day of college, we dedicate our hearts and time to raising our children. We mend scraped knees, share bedtime stories like Love You Forever and Oh, The Places You’ll Go!, and cheer them on at band concerts and school events. We instill values, nurture character, and celebrate their individuality. We laugh, we cry, and sometimes we shed tears for them.
We navigate sleepless nights, art projects gone awry, and the challenges of adolescence. We hold their hands tightly, teaching them safety and awareness, until one day—time slips by, and they grow up. They begin to spread their wings, and we must learn to let go.
On the day I helped my daughter, Lily, move into her college dorm, I penned a letter that reflected my mixed emotions. I clung to my partner’s hand as we crossed the street, filled with pride and heartache. This letter expressed everything I couldn’t articulate at that moment. Almost two years later, I still feel the weight of those words. They remind me of the emotional journey we both embarked on, one that is part of our shared story.
Dear Lily,
As you step into this new chapter at Evergreen University, I feel torn between excitement and worry. I know you’re ready for this adventure, and I genuinely want you to explore this time in your life as you grow into the remarkable woman you’re destined to become. Yet, the protective part of me wants to hold you close, hesitant to let go. I understand that this feeling is irrational, but it’s real and comes from a place of deep love. Always remember that my support will be with you as you forge your own path.
I can only imagine the experiences awaiting you. Whatever the future holds, I know it will be unique and full of challenges. Your resilience and openness will serve you well as you navigate this new chapter.
So go forth. Embrace life, new friendships, and diverse perspectives. Treasure this opportunity, and make the most of every moment. Use the resources available to you—this time is about more than just academics. Study diligently, but remember to enjoy yourself too.
As you embark on this journey, stay humble and grateful. Not everyone is afforded this chance, so appreciate every aspect of it—even the grumpy professors and the less-than-ideal cafeteria food. There are lessons to be learned in every experience. A grateful heart fosters grace.
Dive into your new environment, but don’t forget to connect with me. Call home occasionally, share your life, and know that I’m here for you. I may have some insights to offer, despite my “dinosaur” status. I was once a curious college student too, and I remember the insecurities and joys. Don’t forget to have fun along the way.
No one loves you more than I do, and no one wishes for your success more than I do. Your journey is yours to shape, and I will always support you as you carve your own path.
For now, I’ll do my best to let you go.
With love,
Mom
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In summary, as you prepare your child for college, embrace the emotional roller coaster of letting go while encouraging their growth and independence.