Life can be overwhelming, as I discovered last Thursday when chaos reigned in my household. With a messy home, noisy kids, a cranky partner, and my own exhaustion, I felt like I was on the verge of tears. In that moment, I turned to my best mom friend, Sara, for support. We shared a few laughs over the phone and I poured myself a glass of wine. By the end of our conversation, I felt rejuvenated, all thanks to someone who genuinely cares.
Finding a mom friend for life is a rare treasure, akin to spotting a unicorn. When you discover one, their qualities will be unmistakable, including:
- She’ll be the first to point out if you’ve got lipstick on your teeth or a piece of spinach stuck in your teeth. In essence, she ensures you don’t leave the house looking foolish.
- You can share anything with her, from a strange rash to newly sprouted chin hairs, and she will neither judge nor flinch. Instead, she might share her own stories or help you find remedies online.
- She appreciates that essentials like box wine, coffee, yoga pants, and chocolate are not just mom clichés but vital lifelines. You can count on her to show up at your door with these comforting items.
- If your child is acting out, she’ll be honest with you about it. She’ll respect your approach to discipline and will be upfront about any concerns.
- She knows your partner is off limits and will always respect that boundary.
- She’s your partner in crime, suggesting fun activities like day-long mimosa binges while watching cooking shows and ordering takeout.
- When times get tough, she’s there to hold your hair back if needed, lend a shoulder to cry on, and show you the true meaning of unconditional love.
- She supports your parenting choices without question—whether that means breastfeeding in public or allowing your child to get her ears pierced.
- When others judge your parenting, she’s right there to defend you, offering a listening ear and unwavering support.
- During life’s toughest moments—like job loss, illness, or relationship troubles—your mom friend will be by your side, likely with a casserole in hand, ready to help in any way she can. Love is about showing up for one another.
A friendship like this doesn’t require daily phone calls or constant reassurance; it simply needs two people who truly understand and support one another through life’s ups and downs. It’s like a marriage, but even more fulfilling.
Now, it’s time for me to return the kindness to Sara. I think I’ll pop into a bakery and surprise her later.
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In summary, a true mom friend is an invaluable ally who supports you through the trials of parenthood, offering laughter, honesty, and unwavering support.