People often rave about the joys of infancy, cooing over tiny toes and sweet baby giggles. While I appreciate the charm of little ones, I find myself drawn to the teenage years instead. Yes, you heard that right! As my children have grown, my enjoyment of their company has only deepened. I’d take a lively teen over a cuddly baby any day. Here’s why:
- They’re Hilarious.
My teens have a knack for comedy. Their recent quips and puns have kept me in stitches — who knew they had such wit? - Goodbye Cringe-Worthy Shows.
No more “Dora” or “Caillou” marathons. I can finally escape the shows that made me want to pull my hair out. - They Love Their Sleep.
Teenagers seem to have a superpower: the ability to sleep in until noon. This allows me to catch up on my own much-needed rest. - They’re Independent.
No more dressing or feeding struggles; they handle it all on their own. What a relief! - Their Help is Genuine.
I recall my friend’s young daughter trying to wash his car with a rock. Now, my teens tackle chores like unloading the dishwasher and mowing the lawn, and it actually helps! - No More Diaper Bags.
The days of packing diapers, wipes, and endless snacks are over. Thank goodness for that! - Quick Store Runs.
Shopping with teens is a breeze. No more potty breaks or tantrums; we can split the grocery list and meet at the register. It’s incredibly efficient. - Bathroom Independence.
I can’t express how liberating it is that they manage their own bathroom needs now. - They Handle Their Illnesses.
No more catching vomit in my hands — when my son recently felt unwell, he managed it all himself. I was proud of him for being so self-sufficient. - They Pack Their Own Bags.
Whether it’s for an overnight trip or a vacation, they handle their own packing. If they forget something, it’s a learning experience (like the time one of them forgot underwear!). - Sarcasm is Their Second Language.
They understand and use sarcasm fluently, making our conversations even more entertaining. - Engaging Conversations.
From discussing politics to the mysteries of the universe, they have insightful thoughts that lead to deep discussions. - Showers are Self-Sufficient.
Gone are the days of wrestling slippery toddlers in the bath. They can shower without any help now. - Sleeping In is Bliss.
Seriously, I can’t stress enough how wonderful it is to have a few extra hours of peace in the morning. - No More Last-Minute Diaper Disasters.
I can’t count how many times I rushed out the door only to be hit by a sudden diaper emergency. Those days are behind me! - Disney Movies are a Distant Memory.
While we still enjoy Disney films, we’re no longer stuck in an endless loop of watching the same ones repeatedly. - Bathroom Privacy is Restored.
I can finally have some quiet time in the restroom without an audience. It’s pure bliss! - Movie Outings are Enjoyable.
Going to the movies is a treat for all of us now. I’ve seen more films with my family in the past year than I did in all the years prior. - Swearing Has its Place.
With teens around, I can finally let loose with my language. “Crud” just doesn’t carry the same weight as a well-placed expletive.
Honestly, I think our dinner table conversations could make a great reality show, complete with all the laughter and insights!
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In summary, the teenage years can be incredibly fulfilling and rewarding. From the humor to their newfound independence, there’s so much to appreciate about this unique stage of parenting.