Bathing with my toddler is completely natural. What’s truly odd is how some people choose to sexualize what is otherwise a standard and innocent routine. How did we reach a point as a society where we can accept provocative images splashed across billboards while simultaneously criticizing a parent for simply sharing a bath with their child? Honestly, the internet has lost its way.
For many parents, bathing with babies and toddlers is a practical choice. Most moms will share that it’s a delightful opportunity for play and bonding. This familiar routine is akin to breastfeeding and co-sleeping — acts of connection and nurturing that emphasize safety and love, not harm.
What Parents Are Saying
Still skeptical? Hear what some parents have to say:
“My partner and I bathed with our son until he was about 3 ½ or 4. We want him to feel at ease in his own skin and recognize that not all bodies resemble those of models or celebrities. Plus, it’s a great way to teach him about cleanliness.” — Jenna
“We still shower with our nearly 6-year-old son. It’s that or he doesn’t get clean! Whoever is showering takes him along to keep an eye on him. My 9-year-old has been showering solo for about two years now — he decided when he was ready.” — Mark
“My oldest daughter, now 4, sometimes asks to bathe with me, but she usually enjoys her alone time. With my newborn, we now have three in the tub, and the eldest loves helping wash her baby sister! I can see this continuing for years. My partner puts on swim trunks if she wants to splash around with him, and she copies by wearing her swimsuit!” — Sarah
“I often bathe with my 2-year-old daughter. We splash, play, and she’s learned to wash her hair herself, which she doesn’t like me doing. I haven’t given much thought to when we’ll stop.” — Hannah
“I regularly bathe with my nearly 2-year-old. She mimics my washing routine, making bath time both fun and educational.” — Emily
“My 4-year-old and 2-year-old join me in the shower whenever they want. I’ll know when it’s time to stop when they start feeling uncomfortable!” — Rachel
Not one of these parents mentioned any feelings of inappropriateness or discomfort about bathing with their toddlers. Why? Because this is simply a standard aspect of parenting.
It seems that those with unpopular opinions, often hidden behind the veil of anonymity, have made parenting a battleground for judgment. Now, we find ourselves defending fundamental parenting choices like circumcision, breastfeeding, or co-sleeping. At what point did these choices become anyone else’s concern?
Kudos to all the moms and dads who don’t let Negative Nancies dictate their parenting choices. Often, these critics lack firsthand experience or are just sanctimonious know-it-alls.
Now, if you’ll excuse me, my 3-year-old is demanding bath time, which means it’s time for us to play together in the tub.
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In summary, bathing with your toddler is a normal and beneficial practice that fosters bonding and teaches important skills. Let’s embrace this part of parenting without shame or judgment.