As a child development specialist, I often remind parents and educators that children learn by observing our actions and words. It’s a principle I wholeheartedly believe in. However, as a busy mom juggling a full-time career, raising three kids aged 6 to 8, preparing meals, spending quality time with my partner, and pursuing various writing endeavors, I sometimes struggle to put this advice into practice.
After reflecting on the upcoming school year and the adjustments it brings, I’ve decided it’s time for a reset. I’ve put together a list of “Mommy Resolutions” to guide my parenting journey, and I’m sharing these commitments with other parents, caregivers, and educators. These resolutions serve as a reminder for me as much as for anyone else, and I plan to place them on my fridge for daily inspiration.
To my children, I pledge:
- During our focused time together, I will refrain from using social media or texting. We’ll enjoy our playtime without distractions.
- Even on the longest workdays, I will take a moment to breathe deeply, letting go of stress, and greet you with warmth because I understand you’ve had your own challenges at school.
- Whether at the park or in our backyard, I will join you on the slide or the swing, ready to share those moments.
- I will do my utmost to avoid saying I’m too busy. I want you to know I am always available for you.
- Let’s aim for a weekly dance party—it’s a fun and realistic goal!
- Despite my work commitments, I will prioritize being present for your performances, graduations, and celebrations. You deserve my support and attention.
- If I make a mistake, I will sincerely apologize and demonstrate my regret through my actions, as I’ve taught you to do.
- I will express my love for you every day, sharing the many reasons why you are so special.
- I will remind myself to treasure every smile, laugh, and even the tantrums, as you grow up far too quickly.
- Each morning and night, I will ensure that you feel undeniably loved, special, and cherished.
As we embark on this new school year, these resolutions will guide me in creating a nurturing environment for my children. For more insights on parenting and related topics, you can check out this post on home insemination kits or explore fertility resources for further guidance. If you’re considering starting a family, see this article on effective approaches before fertility testing for a positive outlook.
In summary, as we enter the new school year, let’s commit to being present and engaged for our children. These resolutions serve as a guide to nurturing our relationships and fostering an environment of love and support.