What I Want My Child To Know As School Begins

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Dear Child,

Tomorrow marks your first day of second grade. Can you believe it? I know you might not be thrilled about heading back to school. You’d much prefer to be outside playing baseball or engaging in a soccer shoot-out with your friends. You’d rather sort through your collection of football or baseball cards, swim at the pool, and jump off the diving board for what feels like the thousandth time.

You might want to spend the day watching movies or diving into video games filled with superheroes, secret tunnels, and magical adventures. Or perhaps you’d like to search for bugs or cool rocks beneath the back porch. Riding your bike, enjoying popsicles, and splashing in the lake with your cousins probably sound way more fun than sitting in a classroom.

But alas, summer has come to a close, and tomorrow, school is back in session. I must say, it fills my heart with joy to know you’ve had such a magical summer. However, it’s time to transition back to school life.

Before we dive into this new adventure, I want to share some important secrets with you—secrets that you should always hold dear.

Secret #1: Superheroes Are All Around Us

First, superheroes aren’t confined to storybooks, movies, and video games. They’re all around us, living everyday lives just like you and me. You, my dear, are exceptionally fortunate because you get to learn from a real-life superhero every day—your teacher. She wears a cape of patience and carries a bag filled with lessons about math, science, reading, and kindness.

Remember, a superhero isn’t just someone who battles villains. A superhero is anyone who makes a positive impact in someone else’s life. That includes your teachers. So, be kind, listen attentively, and support her in her important work. When you do this, you too become a superhero, empowering those around you.

Secret #2: Breathe Through Challenges

Secondly, when challenges arise—and they certainly will—remember that taking a few deep breaths can make even the toughest situations feel a bit more manageable. You are a compassionate, energetic, and friendly child, but you also have a sensitive side. You and I share this trait; we both tend to feel things deeply. There will be moments when you might feel overwhelmed—whether it’s a tricky math problem or a situation where feelings get hurt.

During those times, remain calm, breathe deeply, and remind yourself that you are never truly alone. Your dad and I are always with you in spirit, cheering you on, no matter what. It might feel like our support is as small as a speck of dust in your pocket, but it’s there, always. So, when life feels heavy, focus on your breath, trust your heart, and you’ll find your way through.

Secret #3: The Magic Is Inside You

Now, for the third and perhaps most vital secret: the magic you experienced this summer isn’t disappearing. The truth is, the magic is inside you.

What do your dad and I always say? Strive to be the best version of yourself. You don’t have to compete with everyone else—just be the best “you” you can be. It might not always be easy, but if you take those deep breaths and trust your heart, I know you can do it. When you embrace your true self, when you show kindness, bravery, and hard work, you sprinkle magic everywhere you go, encouraging others to do the same.

Embrace the Journey

Ultimately, that’s what it’s all about—learning, growing, and spreading joy. It’s not just about math facts and reading levels, nor is it solely about test scores. It’s about the experiences we create and the magic we share.

So don’t worry, second grade will be wonderful! You’ll discover new things and meet even more superheroes. Be kind, be a good listener, and be a friend. And when you come home, share everything with me, because not a moment goes by that I’m not thinking of you, missing you, and loving you.

With all my love,
Mom