Dear Esteemed Officers,
We are at a critical juncture. It is essential that we acknowledge the reasons behind the growing fear among families with special needs individuals when it comes to seeking assistance from law enforcement. Whether it’s the media’s portrayal, unrealistic expectations, or a lack of understanding, the stark reality is that many families hesitate to reach out for help. They fear that we may cause harm, pass judgment, or even take their children away. This situation is both tragic and unacceptable, and I hope you share that sentiment.
It is with a heavy heart that I admit, I too harbor fears. As a senior officer responsible for training, I teach these principles, yet I still feel apprehensive. As a father, I share in the anxiety that many families experience. We wield significant power over the lives of others, and that is a source of fear for all of us.
We are united in our mission. I would stand with you in any circumstance. I implore you to truly listen to me. When families in crisis reach out, often at their most vulnerable moments, they display remarkable bravery. Understand the depth of their fear as they dial 911. Resist the urge to judge or isolate them. I strive to be a good father, and my wife is an incredible mother. We benefit from a strong support network, but if you were to evaluate my capabilities based on the four times my son has wandered off, you might conclude that I’m unfit.
Families like mine exist in a constant state of high alert. For over a decade, my wife and I have not enjoyed a peaceful meal together at a family gathering. We take shifts monitoring our son, sleep with one ear attuned to the sounds of our home, not out of fear of intruders, but because we worry about our son escaping. We are acutely aware of the judgmental stares from onlookers. Even simple trips, like going to the grocery store, require meticulous planning. This takes a toll on us.
I’m not seeking your pity; this isn’t a tragedy akin to leukemia. It’s a challenge, and there are times when we need support, and we need you.
I have immense respect for you and your work. I stand as your most ardent supporter, proclaiming that you are, unequivocally, the good guys. Yet, this reputation is delicate. A single negative story can distort public perception. Please approach our families with open hearts and minds; learn about our experiences. Your understanding and empathy are invaluable.
For more information on navigating the challenges of parenting, you can explore our other blog posts, such as one about couples’ fertility journeys for intracervical insemination. If you’re looking for success stories, check out this piece from Make a Mom, which showcases the journey of families finding joy. Additionally, Resolve offers excellent resources for understanding family-building options.
In conclusion, let us foster a relationship built on trust and understanding. Together, we can create an environment where families feel safe reaching out in times of need.