I tend to see the glass as half full. I believe in the inherent goodness of people and that there’s beauty in the world. Some might label me as a naive idealist, but I choose not to subscribe to the belief that “people are terrible.” Earlier this year, I made a conscious effort to adopt an approach where I care less about what others think, particularly strangers. Yet, this has become increasingly challenging.
It’s clear that the world feels a bit chaotic these days. A quick glance at social media, news headlines, or talk shows suggests that our society is spiraling downwards. With self-serving politicians, judgmental critics, and toxic online trolls, maintaining my optimistic outlook has been no easy feat.
Every election year brings its own set of madness, but this one feels particularly absurd. We have a candidate whose hairstyle is a spectacle and politicians prioritizing campaign donations over public safety. We see groups fixated on bathroom policies rather than tackling serious issues affecting our youth.
When mothers attempt to engage in discussions about this madness, we are often silenced. We are scolded and told to stick to “mom topics.” Excuse me, WHAT?! What does that even mean? I’ve come across comments urging mothers to keep their opinions to themselves, insisting that a mom’s space shouldn’t delve into political discussions.
Well, here’s the reality: I am a mother, but I also have strong opinions — just like every mother I know. We have perspectives on matters beyond diaper changes and playdates. We didn’t abandon our intellects when we became parents, and it’s downright misogynistic to imply we should remain silent on important issues.
Mothers are capable, educated, and knowledgeable. We manage households and careers, organize meetings, and balance budgets. Our experiences and insights go far beyond the realm of parenting. Speaking on topics such as gun control, education reform, and reproductive rights should be as natural as discussing our children’s milestones.
I’m not suggesting we all agree; in fact, healthy debate is crucial. However, dismissive comments like “shut up” are not constructive. If you’re uninterested in discussing issues like abortion or parental leave, that’s your choice. But if your response is merely to silence us, then you’re undermining the progress made by those who fought for women’s voices to be heard.
To silence mothers is not only sexist but also shortsighted. These aren’t just political issues; they are parenting issues — life and death matters. If we can chat about breastfeeding or sleep schedules, we should be equally comfortable discussing topics that affect our children’s safety and futures.
These are not merely partisan topics; they are family matters that impact us all. We should be discussing them at playdates and swim lessons. Our children are the next generation of leaders and parents, and we all have a stake in their future.
Being a mother carries immense privilege and responsibility. It’s a privilege to nurture a family and witness growth. However, this privilege comes with the duty to advocate for a world that is safe and just for our children. I refuse to someday look my children in the eye and apologize for not addressing the broader issues that affect their lives.
So, I will continue to discuss gun control, paid parental leave, reproductive rights, and educational reform. These are not political issues; they are parenting and life issues. And if that bothers you? I truly don’t care.
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In summary, mothers should not shy away from discussing political issues that directly impact their families. It’s essential to advocate for meaningful change, as these are parenting issues that shape the world our children will inherit.