When my sister and her partner visited on a chilly winter night to share their pregnancy news, I was over the moon. While the thought of welcoming their little one excited me, what truly thrilled me was that my own kids, a 7-month-old and a 2-year-old at the time, would have the incredible experience of growing up alongside their cousins—an opportunity I never had.
Fast forward nine years, and our family has blossomed to seven kids among me and my two sisters. This shared journey has brought immense joy and countless benefits to our lives:
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Stronger Sisterly Bonds
Not only do we gather like a vibrant school of fish to watch our little ones frolic, but we also dive deep into discussions about childbirth, breastfeeding, diaper changes, and toddler tantrums. My sisters offer genuine insights and don’t hesitate to share their honest opinions. More than that, they provide a much-needed respite, reminding each other when it’s time to step out and recharge, often over too much food and not enough drinks, before we joyfully rush back to our little treasures. -
Safe Sleepovers
The delight of sleepovers is something my kids get to enjoy, knowing they’re in a nurturing environment. I don’t have to constantly check in or worry. My sisters, understanding my need for reassurance, send updates and photos throughout the night. Plus, they aren’t shy about saying, “Alright, it’s time to pick up your child!” -
Unbreakable Connections
Growing up together has forged a unique bond among the cousins. They share a connection that transcends mere friendship. My daughter, who doesn’t have a sister, has a cousin who is her closest confidante. They’ve pledged to be each other’s maid of honor, created a secret language, and love swapping clothes—what could be better than that? -
A Supportive Tribe
Trust me when I say that if one cousin is in trouble, the others rally together instantly. Messing with one means dealing with them all, especially when it comes to protecting the younger ones. That’s a lesson every child learns quickly. -
Shared Understanding
As they mature, they will inevitably encounter family complexities. Having cousins means they’ll always have someone who understands their experiences. When one says, “Why does Aunt Lisa lose it again?” they’ll know exactly what the other is referencing. They will always have a safe space to express and share their feelings.
While I don’t wish the days away, I eagerly anticipate hearing the reflections of my children as adults about their collective upbringing. I suspect their sentiments will echo the significance of these memories.
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In summary, growing up with cousins offers not just companionship but also a network of support, shared memories, and a deeper familial bond that lasts a lifetime.