When my children were little, finding alone time felt nearly impossible. The idea of using the bathroom without an audience seemed like a fantasy, and a couple of hours of quiet in my home felt unattainable. However, as the years passed, I began to carve out more moments for myself. And by “alone time,” I don’t mean the frantic hours spent at the grocery store late at night while my family sleeps or the isolated moments in my office racing against deadlines. I’m talking about genuine solitude—at home, without kids, spouse, or work distractions.
Initially, being alone felt uncomfortable and unfamiliar. I would drift from room to room, lost and bewildered, humming “This is not my beautiful life…” in my head. But now that my children are older, I’ve mastered the art of enjoying my solitary hours. It may feel like a luxury, but it’s a well-deserved one.
Whether you’re new to the concept of alone time or simply looking for a refresher, here’s your guide to spending an hour in solitude at home:
- Step inside your home without any children or spouse.
- Pause to ponder the peculiar noise you hear.
- Recognize it’s the sound of silence.
- Decide you dislike the silence and blast some music. Really loud.
- Sing along for about 30 seconds until your throat aches and your head starts to throb.
- Acknowledge that you can’t handle loud music like you used to.
- Turn off the music and collapse onto the couch.
- Reach for the remote.
- Discover the remote isn’t where it should be.
- Search everywhere for it—under the couch, inside cushions, and even in the fridge—while grumbling about your kids losing it.
- Finally find the remote next to the television.
- Flop back onto the couch and turn on the TV.
- Let out a massive sigh of relief.
- Start flipping through channels until you realize you need to use the bathroom (despite having just gone 20 minutes ago).
- Exhale in frustration as you pull yourself off the couch.
- Glance at the clock while heading to the bathroom, calculating how much time you have left before chaos returns.
- Rush to the restroom—with the door wide open!—and scurry back to the couch.
- Mindlessly flip through channels until you land on reruns of your favorite show.
- Drift off while the characters on screen chant nostalgic lines.
- Snap awake in a panic about “wasting time” and contemplate doing something “productive.”
- Debate whether to clean the pantry, organize the closet, or vacuum the car.
- Conclude that you won’t have enough time to finish any of those tasks before the kids return, making it pointless to start.
- Grab your phone instead.
- Scroll through social media, liking adorable photos while rolling your eyes at irritating posts.
- Text your best friend to discuss the boastful updates.
- Think about calling your mom.
- Decide instead to take a leisurely shower.
- Stand under the spray until the hot water runs out.
- Stay for an extra two minutes in the lukewarm water just because you can.
- Realize only five minutes remain before the kids will be home.
- Throw on yesterday’s yoga pants and a somewhat clean shirt.
- Dash around the house to hide any signs of your alone time, including an empty coffee mug and candy wrappers.
- Wonder why an hour of solitude flies by faster than time spent with kids.
- Reminisce about life before children and realize you actually miss those little rascals who fill your days with noise and chaos.
- Open the door with a smile and welcoming arms, ready to embrace your children.
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Summary
This article outlines a humorous and relatable guide for enjoying an hour of alone time at home, giving insights into the small joys and challenges that come with solitude as a parent.