After welcoming my first child, I couldn’t wait to escape the confines of the maternity ward. Being constantly attended to by medical staff, even with the best intentions, felt overwhelming, and I yearned for the comfort of my own home. Fast forward to the impending arrival of my third child, and my perspective has shifted completely. The thought of spending two peaceful nights in the hospital, away from my energetic toddlers, feels like a much-needed retreat (and yes, I adore them, but a breather is essential!). I’ve even packed my hospital bag in anticipation. Here’s why I’m actually looking forward to this experience:
1. Alone Time in My Own Bed
Every night, despite my best attempts to keep them in their own beds, my kids somehow end up in mine—often with their feet in my face or sprawled out, leaving me clinging to the edge. It’s manageable, but the added challenge of a growing baby bump makes it less than restful. At the hospital, while the nurses may check in to monitor my vitals or assist with feeding the baby, there’s also the blissful opportunity for uninterrupted sleep.
2. A Shower Without Interruptions
If you have kids who let you shower in peace, please share your secrets! Mine, on the other hand, treat my shower time as an invitation to invade my space, armed with bath toys and curiosity. The idea of a shower in my hospital room, free from little hands and distractions, sounds heavenly. Plus, there’s a handy bench to sit on if I need a break—talk about a mini spa experience!
3. Supportive Nurses
While they might not be nannies in the traditional sense, the nurses at the hospital are like temporary caregivers. They assist with everything from bathing the newborn to rocking them during those late-night hours when I need a bit of rest. It’s a comforting thought to have such support, even if I wish I could take one home for a while!
4. In-Room Dining
Hospital room service is a delightful surprise! With just a phone call, I can order a meal delivered straight to my bedside. It’s like a dream come true—though the food might arrive a tad soggy, the selection still feels indulgent. Imagine choosing from a menu while lounging in bed.
5. Pain Relief Perks
While the cocktails I’ll be enjoying are far from the fruity drinks of a tropical getaway, the pain medication flowing through my IV has a similar uplifting effect. I may not be at a beach resort, but I’ll definitely be in a good mood! Sure, I might feel a little too relaxed and need a bucket nearby, but it’s all part of the experience.
Although the hospital stay isn’t your typical vacation spot, the arrival of a new baby, coupled with a temporary escape from my daily routine, makes it all worthwhile. After this journey, I may just opt for a lavish getaway to an all-inclusive resort instead of the maternity ward next time!
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Summary
Anticipating my hospital stay after delivery, I look forward to the privacy of my own bed, uninterrupted showers, supportive nurses, room service, and the effects of pain management. It’s a unique retreat that offers a brief escape from the chaos of parenting while welcoming new life.