As an adult, I often find myself in humorous situations—like getting scolded by my 4-year-old for not being “fancy enough” or for singing too loudly. There are days when I need a few simple pleasures to help me through the chaos of motherhood—moments that remind me I’m more than just a human tissue dispenser. My children bring me joy, but they also share their leftovers and the common cold with me far too often. Here’s a list of things that might help you feel a bit more grounded too:
- ‘80s Tunes
Songs like “Total Eclipse of the Heart,” Madonna, and U2 have this magical way of making me feel carefree, if only for a moment. - Sunshine
The warmth of the sun is rejuvenating, and often I don’t realize how much I need it until I’ve been stuck indoors and my kids start eyeing me like I might lose it. - Online Shopping
Whether it’s noise-canceling headphones or a delightful vat of chocolate wine (yep, it exists), shopping online can be a quick escape. - Target Runs
I know it’s cliché, but where else can I go in for toothpaste and end up with a cart full of non-toothpaste items that somehow fulfill a void in my life? - Sneaky Naps
I’ve perfected the art of short naps, even when the kids are around. I can easily pretend to be a baby and get “tucked in” or find a cozy corner during hide-and-seek. - Organizing One Thing
When life feels chaotic, tackling a small project like organizing a junk drawer can restore my sense of control, even if it borders on obsessive-compulsive behavior. - Comfy Pants
I’m not going to say yoga pants, but you get the idea. Comfort is key, and shedding the bra just might clear my mind. - Coffee
I tried cutting out caffeine once, but I quickly realized that I enjoy being functional and recognizing who my friends are. - Old Journals
Rereading my younger self’s angst-filled writings or love letters can be a refreshing reminder of how far I’ve come, even when faced with my husband’s laundry. - Connection with Other Moms
Sharing experiences with other women facing similar challenges often reassures me that I’m not as “out there” as my therapist might think. - Friends Reruns
Watching familiar shows that remind me of a simpler time can be a comforting escape, even if I’m now dealing with more responsibilities. - Carbs
Donuts. Need I say more? - A Long Bath
A locked bathroom door and a hot bath? Pure bliss. - Laughing at Internet Funnies
I often wonder how our mothers managed without the comedy gold of sites like Damn You Autocorrect. - Exercise
While it sounds preachy, a bit of physical activity helps keep my temper in check, thanks to those lovely endorphins. - Solo Grocery Trips
It’s sad, but sometimes a trip to the grocery store alone feels like a mini-vacation. - A Little Alcohol
Let’s be honest; this one’s a staple in the mom survival guide. - Spontaneous Adventures
Ditching the day’s plans for an ice cream outing can often be more therapeutic than a therapy session. - Celebrity Gossip
Reading about the ups and downs of famous people helps me feel like my life is not that complicated after all. - Accepting a Rough Day
Sometimes, simply admitting, “Today is a disaster,” can be liberating when faced with unexpected messes.
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In summary, we all have our little tricks to cope with the daily chaos of motherhood—from the comfort of old tunes to a simple acknowledgment that some days just aren’t great. Embrace those moments of joy and take care of yourself, even if it means indulging in a donut or two!